So I started seeing a guy from tinder about 5 weeks ago. We had 3 really great dates - drinks only - seemed to get on well and he confided personal things to me and seemed interested in me as a person. There was a fair amount of kissing and we had an amazing chemistry. Unfortunately I was only 6 weeks out of last (3yr) relationship and told him that on first date and that my head wasnt sorted about it. But then I started to really like him. I told him on third date that I didn't want a fling and he said ok well we'll have to get to know each other better, let's meet up in the week. I text him next day to arrange meeting up...he didnt reply for a day then said "I feel we're looking for different things". I said what are you looking for? And he said "I don't have the emotional energy - yet - for the next proper relationship. But I don't want a fling either. So I'm in the middle for a while". I said ok I'm not really ready either, do you want to meet up when we're both more settled or just leave it? He says "how about we see where we are in a month or so, what do you think?". That was 3 weeks ago. I text him twice since about neutral things we were talking about snd he has replied in a polite way but not messaged me first. Last time was a week ago. Basically do I need to just let this one go or is he being sensible?? Any chance he actually likes me?!