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Fences and neighbours

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ShatterResistant · 24/09/2014 14:06

This is going to be dull, so I apologise in advance, but I would really appreciated any views.

We're just about to take out a large hedge that divides our neighbour's garden from ours. It takes up about a metre of our garden, and is entirely on our land. Our neighbours have reluctantly agreed to this.

The issue then, you've guessed it, is the fence that will need to go up in its place. (There is half a fence already, incidentally inside our neighbour's boundary, but the whole thing will need replacing.) We DEFINITELY own the fence on the other side. Our predecessors erected it a few years ago- we all know this, as apparently there was a bit of a row about it at the time. But our neighbours refuse to acknowledge that they own this fence, and so refuse to pay a penny towards erecting it. I know, I know it's us that want the work done, but it seems to me that if we can't agree on who owns the fence, the neighbourly and civilised thing to do would be to split the cost down the middle, which is what we have offered. They have refused.

What should we do? As an aside, I don't particularly care if there's no fence there for a bit- we've been building, and our whole garden needs redoing. They, otoh, are trying to sell their house, and will find it quite hard, I think, with only half a fence, particularly when they have to say why...

Help appreciated!

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ShatterResistant · 24/09/2014 17:31

Oh, it's SO boring no-one has replied! Smile Please?!

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arkestra · 25/09/2014 06:53

Hi OP - Might be worth trying AIBU for the traffic? We've had fence issues there before.

I would personally be happy with a half-pays-each compromise as long as I got a say on the fence design/cost!

But I imagine your neighbours may well be trying to fund an expensive house move, and so not want to pay out for half a fence at this juncture?

So I can see their point of view in terms of being reluctant to pay.

But when all is said and done it sounds like the fence is their responsibility. So they would not have comeback if you just go ahead with the hedge removal (assuming the hedge is on your land!)

Hoopalong · 25/09/2014 07:12

Ditto to post above.

ShatterResistant · 25/09/2014 07:24

Thank you! I will try AIBU, although I was a bit scared of it! Yes, hedge entirely on our land. And I do understand it's really bad timing for them. The latest, though, is that they want a say in the design of the fence even though they're not willing to pay anything towards it! That doesn't seem right... Thanks for your view, much appreciated.

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OddBoots · 25/09/2014 07:25

I'd just take the hedge down for now then chat to the new owners when they have sold, the new owners might have their own preference about the fence and so be happy to negotiate.

PragmaticWench · 25/09/2014 08:53

You need to ascertain who is responsible for the boundary (from your deeds or the Land Registry). However either of you can put up a boundary marker, like a fence, on your side of the boundary. Equally, you don't have to! There are some good threads on this in Property/DIY.

However, if they're not prepared to pay, they don't get a say!

Sunna · 25/09/2014 08:58

You aren't trying to sell and can wait for a fence. Just leave it without a hedge and with half a fence. Their problem.

Quitelikely · 25/09/2014 09:00

You might as well go ahead and put up a new fence, they don't want to do it, they don't want to pay for it and I don't think they have to.

No point in getting into a major dispute. Tbh I would be quite annoyed if my neighbours took away my privacy then expected me to pay for the privilege.

For one I might not have the funds

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