feeling lonley at 32 +4

[mumandbump26]

Im 20 years old soon to be 21, and I fell pregnant early this year. I was only with my current partner for 3 months after I found out I was pregnant. Then after a while I realized he was being distance with me, I feel totally on my own in this pregnancy as hes always going with his mates and hes being messaging other girls. I have been warned hes a ladys man and a player, and as ive cried so much over him and me being pregnant my mum dislikes him now.. and my friends dont want to know since ive fallen pregnant andmy mum Is no help atall to me.. everytime I need something he doesnt reply, ive always worked before getting pregnant own car and everything now im stuck in my flat on £50 a week far from myhome town and dont see anybody there what can I do? Ive done all the baby shopping on my own and bought all bits for my baby

Oh dear! Sounds like you've found a bit of a no hoper there. Can you speak to your mum and say you need her support a bit more? Are there any local prebirth groups you can join to meet a few soon to be mums to be friends with? I would try as you'll be able to talk to these people.

I think you're going to have to leave this man in the past as he sounds unreliable and just not mature enough for what lies ahead. You're about to start a really exciting part of your life with your lovely new baby. I know its hard now but you WILL get through this Hugs x