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Thug threatened us on our doorstep last night

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Passthewineandchocolate · 17/07/2014 07:28

We are a law abiding family who are never involved in any confrontations or trouble.

The reason it happened is this. We own a rental property (we lived there, it went into negative equity so when we moved on we rented it out. We are now selling it as it's gone up in price again). We are members of a residents and owners group on Facebook for that house. Yesterday there was a thread talking about lettings agents. Someone recommended one we had used and had trouble with. This agency treated us and our tenant badly. They ignored our tenant's problems and didn't deal with them or tell us when we were paying them to manage the property, they were rude and dismissive on the phone, they charged the tenant for a credit check that they didn't do, they were impossible to get hold of. I could list more.

My husband commented on the thread just saying that we had a bad experience with them and wouldn't recommend them. At 10pm that night a massive, aggressive man came to our door. I answered as DH was upstairs trying to help me sooth our chicken pox covered toddler. This man aggressively demanded to speak to my husband. I asked who he was and told him to leave but he carried on. My DH came to the door and then this bloke leant right in our front door into my DH face and threatened that if he didn't remove is comment in the next 5 minutes he'd be back.

We shut the door and my husband removed the comment but I am fuming. We are entitled to our opinion. My husband's post didn't say anything that wasn't true. This agent has given a thug our address and he threatened us in our home.

What can we do to this agent now? I don't want them to get away with this but I don't want the situation to escalate.

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Passthewineandchocolate · 18/07/2014 12:39

No reply from the estate agent.

It was a public order offence he was guilty of but yes, the estate agent is more in the wrong. We do know of a third party who can validate that the thug is friends with the estate agent.

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Passthewineandchocolate · 18/07/2014 15:07

I also checked on their website and they say they are members of the property ombudsman but I can't find them as members on the ombudsmen website. I've filled in a request with the ombudsman to see if they are members or not. If they are I want to make a formal complaint against them.

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JenniferJo · 18/07/2014 15:15

Good to see you fighting back, OP. Well done!

Passthewineandchocolate · 18/07/2014 19:03

Well my husband is upset with me and worried about retaliation now.

I want to make a formal complaint so I phoned them to ask their address and if they are registered with the ombudsman which they said they were. They asked who I was and I just said 'an ex landlord'. However, they have since taken down their website. Obviously they weren't really members so they've had to take their website down. DH thinks I've made the situation worse and now they will do us some damage.

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tribpot · 18/07/2014 19:10

I'm not sure why he's more worried about retaliation from an anonymous call to their office querying something factually incorrect on their website, vs you involving the police. All you can do is keep calm, don't answer the door unless you know who's calling, and take advice from the police tomorrow.

Ilovenewts · 18/07/2014 19:17

Don't see why you shouldn't put the comment back uo too. Police was the right thing.

Passthewineandchocolate · 18/07/2014 19:18

He think that they'll know it was me who called and they'll be angry that they've had to take their website down. He thought we were just going to log it with the police.

I don't know. Part of me thinks I should have just left it so they'd have no reason to damage our property or hurt us but part if me wants to show them that they can't get away with treating people like that.

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tribpot · 18/07/2014 19:24

But you've told them (via FB message) that you're going to go to the police. So if anything is likely to inflame the situation it's that rather than this. What's done is done, all you did was ask a question on the phone without saying who you were. Taking the website down looks more like panicking than anything.

Earlybird · 18/07/2014 19:26

Awful and terrifying. I think going to the police was the right thing to do.

How do you think the agency knew it was you who had posted the criticism? Must have been very specific about what you posted?

QuintessentiallyQS · 18/07/2014 19:28

Did you take a screenshot of the website showing they are falsely claiming to be registered?

OwlCapone · 18/07/2014 19:29

How do you think the agency knew it was you who had posted the criticism?

I assume it was because it was on Facebook and thus gave their name.

Passthewineandchocolate · 18/07/2014 19:29

Yeah well I hope nothing else happens.

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Redglitter · 18/07/2014 19:29

If you've called the police and have someone coming to see you then your call must be logged in the system. I'd suggest if you don't know the reference/incident number phone them back and ask for it.

If anyone comes near your door about this phone 999 immediately and report it and quote the reference/incident number so they're aware this is an ongoing situation

Earlybird · 18/07/2014 19:30

Oh, ok. Somehow I thought they had posted about it on Mumsnet!

Passthewineandchocolate · 18/07/2014 19:31

Yeah my DH made the comment on Facebook so the agent knew who it was.

Stupidly I didn't think to take a screen shot if their website. I'm not good at this whole thing.

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SauvignonBlanche · 18/07/2014 19:33

I'm glad you've got the police involved.

Passthewineandchocolate · 18/07/2014 19:33

I've got the incident number. If anything else happens I'll phone 999.

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Redglitter · 18/07/2014 19:34

Good. Be sure and quote it if worst comes to worst. It should help get your call treated as a priority

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