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About this Amazon seller who keeps asking me to withdraw feedback?

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QuintessentiallyQS · 01/06/2014 17:49

I bought a toy army set for my son back in March. It consisted of a small hand gun and a rifle, second world war style. He wanted it for an event in school, where the children were supposed to be either soldiers or evacuees. It was £14.

The item arrived fairly promptly, son ripped the packaging and threw it away, and started playing. He played with it a bit the first evening and the next day it broke. The firing mechanism stopped working, so it no longer shot the darts. The bins had already been collected, and I figured I could not be bothered with the hassle of contacting the seller, packing it up, and returning it at my cost, just to be sent another crappy replacement. It would mean I had paid even more, and even if they were to refund, I would not be refunded two lots of postage, just the item value, so decided to just forget it.

Two weeks ago I got an email from Amazon asking me to leave feed back, rate sellers, or something, and there was a picture of the army set, together with the other items bought on Amazon recently.

So I clicked the link and left feedback explaining that the gun was really poor quality and it broke within 24 hours.

Next thing, an email from the seller, complaining about the feedback, saying as a seller it impacts on him when feedback is bad, so could I please remove the feedback. I replied pretty much the above, that I did not bother entering into a dispute about the item because I did not want to be left out of pocket on postage, and I did not have the packaging, and by now the faulty gun had been thrown away.

The seller responds that I have left the feedback in the wrong place then, as I have rated him as a seller rather than the item.
He explained that if I had still had the item, and the packaging to return, he would have refunded me, but alas, without the item there is nothing he can do.

I go back in and I rate the ITEM this time, but I dont remove the seller feedback.

I have another email acknowledging that the item has been reviewed, and could I now remove the bad seller feedback. I have done nothing, but he has sent three more identical emails about removing my feedback of him.

To be honest, I dont want to. He has not resolved my problem, he has not sent a replacement gun. He has not refunded me. He has on the other hand pestered me about removing bad feedback. By now I think he is a really bad seller.

I am in two minds whether I should:
a) continue to do nothing.
b) report him to Amazon for badgering me over feedback
c) replace the feedback with a feedback that states that the item was crap but because I did not have the packaging and the item had been throw away I did not return it, but left feedback in the wrong place and have been inundated with emails asking me to remove bad feedback ever since, and give him an even lower star rating?
d) respond to him that now that I have a more accurate view of him as A SELLER my feedback will be much more accurate, and relate to him badgering me over bad feedback.

Can I do this?
Does anybody have any experience with changing feedback on Amazon?

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JonSnowsPout · 01/06/2014 17:51

I'd report and ignore all future mails from him

BrianTheMole · 01/06/2014 17:54

Well I can see his point tbf. You didn't give him a chance to rectify the problem, you threw the gun and packaging away, yet you expect him to send you a replacement without returning the faulty item. And if he doesn't he gets landed with bad feedback. He can't win really can he Confused

QuintessentiallyQS · 01/06/2014 17:56

My feedback mentions the seller in a positive way, and the gun in a bad way

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QuintessentiallyQS · 01/06/2014 17:56

Brian, I did not expect him to do anything.

I just responded to an email from Amazon asking me to rate, and so I did as honestly as I could.

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AgentProvocateur · 01/06/2014 17:58

To be fair, you bought it in March. It's now June, and he's not resolved the problem because he didn't know about it till mid-May, and it's a bit off to expect a refund or replacement if you don't send the old one back.

I'm not a seller, so I have no axe to grind, but I think it fair enough to leave a bad product review but not ok to leave a bad seller review. He sent the item promptly, and wasn't to know it broke within 24 hours. If I were you, I'd withdraw the poor seller review

elvislives2012 · 01/06/2014 18:01

I'd remove the feedback about the seller as it appears it's the item that was of poor quality so it's that that needs reviewing. I only leave bad seller feedback if the delivery was slow, they refused a refund or had high delivery charges etc etc.
despite writing that the seller was ok, I imagine the amount of stars you gave impact negatively on their overall Score iyswim?

QuintessentiallyQS · 01/06/2014 18:03

I am feeling really bad about the whole thing, because I am to be honest sick of poor quality items on Amazon. On the occasions I have returned stuff, they have refunded me MINUS the original postage paid, and not refunded the postage I paid to return. So if I have paid £15 for a nerf gun, £4 postage, returned it because the electric mechanism did not work, which cost me £5 postage, then I have paid a total of £9 postage for an item we dont have. So even if my initial £15 are refunded, I am £9 out of pocket. So this time I could not be bothered.

I wish I had never left a review because I have 12 different emails from him now, and he is arsy in all of them. Had he been polite and apologetic I would have been much more inclined to remove feedback.

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QuintessentiallyQS · 01/06/2014 18:04

I gave him 3 out of 5 stars. Another reviewer with a poor quality gun gave 1 out of 5, so my feedback is not the one affecting him the worst.

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BrianTheMole · 01/06/2014 18:10

Yeah, I wouldn't be happy about the postage thing. Are you sure thats right?

QuintessentiallyQS · 01/06/2014 18:12

I dont know if it is right, but that is what my experience is.

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elvislives2012 · 01/06/2014 18:12

I know what u mean about crap quality on amazon. It's so annoying. If something is faulty tho I don't think u have to pay delivery charges? I've just returned something and they refunded the delivery costs too

QuintessentiallyQS · 01/06/2014 18:15

I think that is on the discretion of the seller?

I once bought a pair of North Face Goretex trekking pants, the listing said XL, the item received was size 14 and too small (I am size 16 and that normally tally with XL) They did not recover my postage fees, but said I should be glad they refunded, and with the good price on other items I should be pleased overall.

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QuintessentiallyQS · 01/06/2014 18:16

Maybe I will just remove the feedback and hope for good karma.

And never taking the bother of leaving feedback again. Angry

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tiredtoday · 03/06/2014 00:36

I am a seller on Amazon, and agree with others who say to remove the feedback, as it was not the seller's fault, and you did not try to get the problem resolved, just left him neutral star rating, which will drag his whole rating down.

I do think he should not be being arsy with you, a polite email never hurts, but maybe he is having a bad run with a product he did not know was fault, and got frustrated with it all.

Not making excuses for him, but it is so frustrating when you get negative, or any feedback below 4 stars, when there was nothing you could do about the issue or if you were not are of an issue

SueDNim · 03/06/2014 00:48

The seller has chosen to stock a crap item. I think the seller must take responsibility for that. So I'd leave the feedback. Can you block his emails?

QuintessentiallyQS · 03/06/2014 07:04

SueD - that was my thought exactly - he chose to sell crisp items. No doubt bought cheaply and sold with s high mark l-up.

He could have offered a part refund as a gesture of goodwill, or posted me a new toy to show me he had faith in his stock. Instead he has behaved as if I have been after compensation all along with snidely comments that i am entitled to nothing since I threw it away.

The more I think about it I am inclined to let the rating stay, on the basis of sellers behaviour after the rating wa left.

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eddielizzard · 03/06/2014 07:15

well it was also your choice to buy a crap item. a hand gun and rifle for £14 isn't going to be amazing is it? did you check the reviews?

i do think he did his part - you got the item quickly. unfortunate that he is being arsey but i would probably remove the feedback.

QuintessentiallyQS · 03/06/2014 07:41

Distance selling regulations should really put the onus on sellers to chose good items if they want to build a good business and get good reviews.

I was not there, it was a toy gun. It was £14, I dont think that is cheap to be honest.

He has since lowered the price to £10.

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tiredtoday · 05/06/2014 18:30

How is a person suppose to know if a product is rubbish. .. is he suppose to open up everything and try it out?

leave a bad product review if the product is bad. If the seller did what he is supposed to then neutral is not fair.

SueDNim · 06/06/2014 19:17

If you own a shop you carefully review items before you stock them and if they look crap you don't stock them. An online shop should be the same.

MexicanSpringtime · 08/06/2014 23:24

How is a person suppose to know if a product is rubbish. .. is he suppose to open up everything and try it out?

Sounds like a good idea to me

ArcherAnguish · 09/06/2014 06:26

I'm not sure I understand the relevance of the trekking pants - did you buy them from the same seller?

I think you are being unfair with the feedback as you didn't give the seller the chance to rectify the problem. Would you go into M&S and tell them a pair of shoes you had bought there were faulty, tell them you had thrown them away and expect them to give you a new pair? It really is no different.

fishybits · 09/06/2014 06:33

12 arsy emails = bullying.

I'd change the feedback to reflect that.

Ioethe · 11/06/2014 13:12

I'd update seller feedback to say how rude and unpleasant he's been and then block his email. People really need to know this sort of thing if they're buying off of someone.

I've left negative feedback for a seller before who contacted me, offering a replacement item. I didn't want one, but I removed negative feedback because I felt like she'd tried.

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