Looking for some advice please. I met a mum a few years ago through a baby group and we have stayed in touch ever since. My ds is older than her dd and we stay a short drive from each other. She does not drive and there is no bus that goes from where she lives to where I live. For the last 3.5 years I have driven over there on a regular basis, often on weekly visits. I have suggested over time that we meet in other places than the house so the kids can have more space to run around and every time apart from a handful she always says no, cant make it or another reason why not. Ds and I are both finding it hard and not very enjoyable going anymore and ds has asked for a long time now if we cannot go and I have been asking if she could come visit us (can get her with oh giving a lift) but she always finds a reason not to come. I have been feeling for a while that the friendship is one way and that it is always me having to make the effort to go visit and that this is not reciprocated and I am at a crossroads now of thinking what to do next as I don't see it ever changing she is just someone that likes people to come to her. Wwyd? We do not have much shared interests and ds and her dd have nothing in common but we enjoy hanging out and small chatting and she is a lovely person hence we have kept in touch. I know a big part of this is she does not drive but she can get a lift here if she wanted but it is that she does not want to come here that is the issue for me when I have put so much effort into visiting her for so long.