women that works at nursery keeps flirting with my boyfriend!!!

[jessjamiecoby199]

Everytime we go to pick my lb up from nursery she always going straight up to him. Always touching him somehow. She always giving me dirty looks. And she asked him to add him on fb which he didnt do. She always little remarks about his looks (basically saying he is fit and things like that). Really need some advice as i cant take it anymore and i dont want my children going to a nursery where the staff are unprofessional. Thanks jess

Report to the manager - at least about the asking to add on facebook - that is incredibly unprofessional. You'll look a bit mad if you go in screaming 'she's after my man!" but in a nursery staff really shouldn't be blending their personal lifes with that of the children's for safeguarding reasons at least.

duff her up

Crispy

How do i go about as i dont want my partner thinking im going over the top about it and it causing a argument between us

It's up to you BF to show her he isn't interested. He's probably enjoying the attention.

Asking to add him on facebook is absolutely wrong and completely unprofessional. Your partner needs to be really clear with her and say that he is not interested in adding her on facebook.

The add on FB thing.

How unprofessional.

No staff at my nursery would ever do that. Awful.

I ve worked in a number of nurseries and this is very common!

Well not the telling parents that they are fit bit, but certainly giving the father of one of the children 'the eye'

Are you sure shes told him hes 'fit' ?

What has your boyfriend said about it?

He needs to tell her to stop it, doesn't he?

You don't need to do anything. Unless he doesn't deal with it. In which case your problem is not her.

Nothing to do with you, im afraid . If he is uncomfortable with it , he needs to say something and make it clear it's unacceptable and unwelcome, but he's not your possession to defend.

Just stand by the door and do the my eyes, your eyes flicky finger thing when he next goes to collect the little one.

It's his job to stop it and put her straight, not yours. What has he said about it?

The way to go about it is to complain to the manager about the facebook add thing, and say you were concerned that maybe staff aren't up to date with the safeguarding policies and that you thought it was a little bit unprofessional.

Any manager worth their role would put two and two together and give the staff member a bollocking, without you having to look like a mental banshee. Everyones happy!

Whatever anyone does it shouldn't be you doing it!

Hiya thanks for the replys i spoke to my partner about it and he dont think she is flirting with him at all :s and yes he told me himself that she said he was very good looking and quite fit.

I'd be smacking fuck out of her.

Part of your problem is your DP then. Surely if you can see it he can?

I'd be smacking fuck out of her

Really? Why?

She can flirt if she wants to flirt. It's up to the fella if he reciprocates.
The FB thing is unprofessional, but she'd probably just deny it.

I couldn't give a monkey if someone wants to try to flirt with my DH. He's with me, and no amount of flirting from someone else is going to change that. I trust him completely.

OP, this is entirely down to your OH to deal with - if it needs dealing with.

Isnt it a bit unprofesional for her to be flirting with my oh but also in front of my lb????

Would you Pasithea?

Classy.

Your lb will neither notice nor care.
Your OH could put a stop to it if he felt there was anything inappropriate. If he doesn't think there is a problem, then it's probably not that overt.
If you complain, you'll probably look a bit of a prat

She isn't actually doing any harm is she

What's an lb anyway?