I'm quite a young mum not unusual this day and age and have no doubts about being a mother but I'm very anxious and often wonder if I'm over paranoid. My son will be my first child and sometimes wonder if that's why as I don't know what to expect but I find myself worrying about family asking to have him over night and more so my partners family as I don't know them very well so in a way (to me) is like leaving him with a stranger but my partners a brilliant man very supportive very excited as are his family and I have no doubts about my baby staying with his mother, she's done a brilliant job raising her three children but the thought of him being away stress's me out insanely and sometimes can be a little depressing. Is this a normal thing to feel against your own family and partners? They should be people you trust which I do but my baby is a person, a life not a toy I don't go out in the nights there fore don't see why my baby has to stay away?