Hello I'm having an Affair with Married man and I want to stop

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I have been having an affair with a married man for 8 months and I can't stop. I am married too for 10 years. MM has been with wife for 12 yrs and has a 10 yr old, he says he loves me and cares for me but cannot leave his wife. I have fallen madly in love with him. We see each other 1 x a week and talk during the week 2-3 times a week. My husband is wonderful we have no issues, he adores me and would be devastated if he found out. I have read a lot about affairs, addiction, reasons why people do this, and I am in counseling to try to get this bad cycle to stop. Any advice would help. I want my life back.

stick with it, if you want, but if he leaves his wife for you... your job's just become vacant and guaranteed you're going to be in exactly the samepostion as his wife is now.

why don't you ask your husband for some advice?

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Imagine the look on your husbands face if he found out. Imagine him leaving you. Imagine getting divorced and your life falling apart. That should make you stop.

You haven't actually said if you still love your husband or not. If you don't, then just tell him and move on. It's unfair to your husband if you are pretending things are okay if they aren't. If you do still love him then you should stop this straight away and stop contact with the married man immediately.

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Tell his wife. Then either the affair will end, or he won't be married.
Or you could be honest with both of your partners and form a free-love commune.

I had an affair. My husband found out 15 years later. My children will never love me the way they did, my husband won't come near me. The kids have lost all trust in relationships. It has destroyed my life, my kids lives and my husbands. If this hasn't put you off and you are okay about the fact your family will never respect you again then carry on as you are. If you think you won't get caught ... Wrong I was caught 15 years later and it had been over for that length of time. Really think about it. I wish someone had told me.

Why is this in Blogs? Are you blogging about this?

Any divorced women replying on here do you think? Honestly ladies you'd never guess.

I think you need a bit of self-respect, never mind willpower.

Dies he say 'my dw doesn't understand me?' If he does, than more fool you. He's spinning you a yarn.

Of course you can stop. You just don't want to.

My husband is wonderful we have no issues,

No issues apart from the fact that his wife is a cheater who has no respect for him.

How do you get some willpower? Tell your husband and give him the chance to find a future with someon who loves him.