First post so be gentle :-). I have been with my hubby for 20 years (married for 10) and have four kiddies 9 and under.
Two year ago after my youngest was born DH confessed to having had a short affair a year before. I was 3 weeks post c-section and in a terrible state. H left and I (stupidly) attempted suicide. I had no real friends as I thought H and family were enough, but a work colleague stepped up and really helped me survive and become strong and independent.
My DH and I had counseling and reconciled and I kept my independence and made lots more friends through this colleague.
I supported her through her mum having cancer and we became close friends.
Problem is now if I have other plans with DH or family and cannot go with her if she decides she wants to go to bingo or for a night out she posts passive aggressive vague statuses on FB about people being 'two faced' or 'naive' and goes into a 'huff'.
I suffer from depression and through lots of therapy I am so much better but I have to be honest this brings me down.
I had a weekend away with my DH for my anniversary and he had bought me a beautiful watch but she asked what he had done that he had to buy the watch and then refused to speak to me for 4 days.
She does have a partner but they really live separate lives and I think she thinks I'm daft giving DH a second chance (but I love him and it was totally out of character).
I know I should just cut her out if my life but when we have fun we really have fun and I would loose the circle of friends I have met through her. WWYD?