Boy trouble

[Emmmm12]

Hello! I'm only 17 and I know I'm really young to be on this site but I could use some advice with this guy I'm seeing (all my friends are useless). But I know a few people my own age that use this site.
Basically I started to really like this guy(he started to talk to me first) and we arranged to meet up and I slept round his. We had sex and everything (I'm not a slut I swear I just really really like him and I was a bit drunk) but because I'm me I managed to get to the point I was throwing up (how unattractive). However he looked after me and said 'look I didn't leave' when I came back round again because I was complaining about the thought of him going (how needy)
Anyways in the mrning he was quit quiet but I think this was because he was really tired, we still were cuddling and everything. When I left he kissed me twice and told me to text him when I got home which I did and he said we should do this again. This happned three days ago now and we've had very little communication. I'm worried he doesn't like me anymore. Should I text him or would I seem to clingy? When we have been texting he has been putting the usual amount of x's and stuff so it doesn't seem blunt or anything. Am I just over reacting? Should j text him? Where do I go from here?
Please help!
Love Emily x

You can talk yourself crazy if you think too much into it.

I'm a big believer in the "he's just not into you" philosophy. If he's into you, he'll let you know.

Bear in mind though that "being into you" doesn't mean JUST meeting up for sex (unless that's all you want). And PLEASE protect yourself by using condoms but also the pill or other contraceptive so that you're not just relying on him to protect you. Also stop drinking to excess (to throwing up).

Feel free to text him if you want. Maybe ask about meeting for lunch to see whether he's interested in a relationship or just sex... something like "do you want to go for lunch at XXX sometime?" and if he suggest a date and time you're good (and go home afterwards, no sex) but if he he replies with "I'll let you know", or "I'm pretty busy" or is basically non-committal, you'll know where you stand.

Good luck!

Did you see him over New Year?

Looking after someone who is puking after she's just slept with him was the least he could do, it didn't make you "needy".

No matter how keen you were to have sex it bothers me he did in spite of you being off your face.

Hope you took precautions. Getting drunk with someone you barely know is risky but you felt relaxed enough to trust him at your most vulnerable. If things had worked out differently - well please be careful in future.

Have you heard from him again? I don't think it's "clingy" to be honest and let someone know you like him. A text a couple of times a day isn't pestering just let him do some of the running. Ask if he'd like to meet up then let him suggest a place and time. If he's still living at home he might have had family stuff over

Looking after someone who is puking after she's just slept with him was the least he could do, it didn't make you "needy".

No matter how keen you were to have sex it bothers me he did in spite of you being off your face.

Hope you took precautions. Getting drunk with someone you barely know is risky but you felt relaxed enough to trust him at your most vulnerable. If things had worked out differently - well please be careful in future.

Have you heard from him again? I don't think it's "clingy" to be honest and let someone know you like him. A text a couple of times a day isn't pestering just let him do some of the running. Ask if he'd like to meet up then let him suggest a place and time. If he's still living at home he might have had family stuff over

Let him do all the running. Do some thing nice to take your mind off it. If he doesn't text, forget about him. Plenty of boys out there!

Whoops not sure how I posted twice, meant to finish
"he might have had family stuff on over New Year".