My friend (a very sweet girl who's helped me a lot in the past) came to my daughter's birthday party last year as she's very fond of my children.
She said she was coming to help (more or less invited herself over to a kiddie party ) but turned up 2 hours late, wearing an extremely short skirt, beamed at DH when he walked in with a plate of food prepared for her...didnt help with kids...and proceeded to be super friendly to and loiter around my husband.
For a year before the party, I'd been confiding in her that my marriage was on the rocks as I'd discovered that my DH had been playing around and emotionally (possiblly physically too) involved with one particular girl at work, and moving in on another. She knows that I was heartbroken, staying put in a broken marriage with a bastard of a husband for various reasons ...and I thought her loyalties would lie with me, and that she'd be polite and civil towards DH but not all super friendly and spending time with him alone. My parents and this friend all trekked out into the garden to view a studio DH had built, after some time my family and I made our way back indoors whilst she stayed in that studio alone with him for 15 mins.
At one point when I saw her and DH staring at one another -yes only a few seconds - but I noticed, I was furious.
I didnt say anything to her, after 5 hours asked her to leave because everyone else had gone home... but over the past year she's been pleading with me via text to meet ...I've been avoiding her.
Should I overlook it? I know my husband is a disgusting flirt, and maybe the fault lies more with him. Or maybe nothing happened and I exaggerated their friendliness ...I don't know...I'm all confused. What would you do with this friend ?
Thankyou