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Is this nice or a bit OTT?

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lmac2012 · 13/12/2013 21:56

My son started preschool in September and has settled wonderfully and really enjoys going every day. This has come as a huge surprise as he had a lot of seperation anxiety issues when younger.

I am in no doubt that him settling do well is down to his teacher making him feel so secure and creating a very warm and happy environment.

I am quite a shy person and not one for chitchat so I have never actually had a full conversation with his teacher. I will say hello but not alot more unless she has something to hand over about my son which isn't often. She is fairly newly qualified and from what I have seen she is great with the children and is very dedicated and hard working.

My son has made her a bauble and card for Xmas. I was also thinking of popping in a card with a note in to say thank you so much for her hardwork and that is is much appreciated. Also mention how grateful I am that she has helped my son settle in so well.

However, is this a bit over kill? Should I just find some confidence and tell her to her face how much I appreciate her. Will she think it's odd how a random parent who has never really spoken to her is now sending her a special note?! Thoughts please. I know it's not the most important issue in the world but I'm just wondering others thoughts.

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SarcasticMrKnowItAll · 13/12/2013 21:57

Sounds like a lovely idea, I'm sure she'd appreciate that Smile

DrownedGirl · 13/12/2013 21:58

I think that's lovely and will be much appreciated. I have done similar myself in the past.

twentyten · 13/12/2013 22:01

That is lovely. Go for it!

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Pancakeflipper · 13/12/2013 22:02

Do.

And if this is part of a school ( or even if not) send an email to the Headteacher. This will go on the teacher's file and be noted ( and go towards the teacher's appraisal etc).

Thanks is not always given whereas complaints are easier to give.

BigfingersInTheBrandyCream · 13/12/2013 22:03

do it Grin.

Upcycled · 13/12/2013 22:07

Agree with pancake.

Preciousbane · 13/12/2013 22:09

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drawohamme · 13/12/2013 22:16

Def do it - Grin

Mushaboom · 13/12/2013 22:21

I am a teacher and think it's a wonderful idea - I always appreciate thanks from parents, whether that's in person or in a note/card!

ToffeeOwnsTheSausage · 13/12/2013 22:27

Definitely do it. We have recently changed schools and one lady has really helped make the whole thing much easier than it might have been. I wrote a note in her Christmas card. Also, when DD was really ill some staff at the hospital were incredible and I emailed to say so and pass on my thanks. I think we can be too quick to complain and not nearly keen enough to praise.

lmac2012 · 13/12/2013 22:54

Thanks all :) Will definitely do it!

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