We owed a family some money, and my OH told them we could give them their money within a certain time frame. When we just couldn't.
We have been pestered for this money - which I fully understand.
But it is money they never would have had, otherwise.
I do feel bad - if I was in their position, I would feel the same way.
But, I have to say - I would be understandable of circumstances. Which have been explained to them.
My whole point here is, this is nothing to do with ME.
It is more so regarding my OH. But I was the one being pestered, on a pretty much daily basis. I am the one seeing cryptic facebook status's about me. I have seen messages about violence.
But like I said - this has nothing to do with me. It may be my OH, but why am I the one getting it in the neck!
Because of the pestering, my OH has been awkward to say the least. But, again, he hasn't taken into account that I am the messenger, and so I am the one who is getting the backlash.
I don't know what to do! I am an anxious mess over the situation. I come from a quiet family - where as these are rough and ready to say the least.
We have paid it all now - but I still see the angry messages. I don't know what to do, or how to handle it if things do go tits up.
Any advice on what I should/could do.
I know in the future to never, ever buy anything else unless we have the money up front.