Do I include both grandkids in a photo calander?

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Planning on making a photo calander for FIL and MIL (separated). I have a dd, and was going to put photos of them holding/playing with her. Should I include their other GC? SILs dd is sinilar age, and there are some joint photos which I would include, but is it 'the righ thing to do' to also put some solo photos of neice in the calander?

WWYD?

Of course it's a calendar there should be equal numbers of shots of their grand kids

If it was a photo book from your family then that's different

But you only have one calendar and it is a present so you should think about the recipient and not what the giver wants

You need to check with your SIL. You can't include a picture of another person's child without checking with them - what if they wanted to do a calendar themselves?

If it's ok with them, then go ahead and include both children. But try to make roughly equal numbers of both - don't have 9 months of your dd, two months of both, and one month of dn

I wasnt asking in an "urh do I have to include dn?" way, just wanted to check the etiquette.

Have messaged sil to check whether she was going to do one, and if I can put ohotos of dn in it.

We do a photo diary for MIL each year and always include equal photos of all grandchildren