I seem pathetic

[ifonly678]

my marriage has been on the rocks for the past few years.. and I recently got in contact with an old flame from school... and my feelings for him have come to life again .. I have never felt so happy in my life... I havent told anyone neither my husband or friend of my feelings.. we thank god have no children due to me not being able to have kids.. but this dont make it any better... what do I do?? advice or shouting at me is acceptable

Make a decision about your marriage, make it work or end it, the old flame is irrelevant at the moment. Unless you want a bit of drama in your life.

thing is I probably would never have thought about leaving my husband if he hadn't come on the scene... im torn... is this just me reading too much into everything...

You said your husband and you were on the rocks. Either sort it out with him or not. The other person is a red herring

I would love to stay with him if he showed me some attention to him im just a housemaid.. I cook and clean... get nothing off him... I really dont kniw what to do..

You think you seem pathetic? Hmmmm
It's your life, wake up.

I feel pathetic.... married but having feelings for another person... never been in this situation. ive been with husband since I was 19 and married since I was 20..

Does this other person feel the same way about you?

You really need to treat it as a separate issue. If your marriageis on the rocks deal with that first. You are not really in a position to pursue a relationship with someone else whilst you are committed to your husband.