What do you do if and when you're in a meeting - or with colleagues in an informal setting - and people talk across you, or at you, or simply exclude you altogether. It happens to me rather a lot!
Just now, for example, I was at a small meeting, 4 of us, to talk about something that's arisen in a local community group that I'm active in (we're the trustees). Two of the more vociferous members talked right across me - I could hardly get a word in edgeways. In terms of the discussion and decisions made, I might as well not have been there. (Actually, I'm coming off this board shortly, to focus on other things in the group - and this has been the tone and pattern of meetings since I came on two years ago.)
Left feeling like I have no voice worth listening to! (And to make matters worse, they were off to a party hosted by someone in the group to which I wasn't invited - why should I be, expect that most, if not all, of the active members of this group will be there this evening ..)
Am beginning to wonder if there's something in me for people not to like. I get on well with colleagues but there are one or two who talk past me -
Don't know what to do in this situations? I usually quietly chip in when I can, and have started to suggest, certainly in formal meetings, that all voices are heard.
Any suggested tactics would be gratefully received!
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Isabel1066 · 31/08/2013 19:36
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