My step son has always had toilet issues with soiling himself. He says he just never makes it to the toilet in time. I know that can happen with children. But it doesnt bother him and he stays like it. We did deal with it for a while but its happening again. We have talked to him to find out if anything is bothering him. He says no. Hes a very happy boy. He has accepted me and my daughter into his life and I love him as my own. He calls me mum. He tells me everyday he loves me and his dad and sisters. We do alot together as a family.
Now also my step daughter has started peeing in her sleep. In her bed and on the carpet. She hides dirty underwear and wet clothes and if she has peed her bed in the morning she puts a towel down and makes her bed as usual. Its not very often I have to go in the kids rooms as they always keep it tidy. AlwYs make there own beds and bring clothes down to be washed. I like to give there a room a good clean at weekends when my step kids are at there mums and my daughter is with her dad. I did notice the girls room was smelling slightly so was openibg windows and asking my sd if she has hid any dirty pants to bring them down stairs so I could wash them. I never get angry with her for this but do explain its not good to hide dirty pants because its making the room smell. And thats when I also noticed she had we the bed. And was covering up. And then of course when makeing the bed and putting teddies back on the bed I noticed the carpet was very wet. Where she had been peeing. I asked her if she knew she did it as she does sleep walk sometimes and to my astonishment she said yes. She claimed it was to dark to go to the toilet so she went there. It is never dark up stairs as I always leave landing light and bathroom light on and kids doors open. So when I pointed this out she changed her story to she was tired and couldnt be bothered to go toilet.
My daughter is getting very upset as she no longer wants to share a room with my sd and thinks my ss and sd should share. She is 10 years old. Ss is 9 and sd is 7. I have been to the doctor and git some help but nothing has worked. I have spoken to my sc mum with no help as she cant be bothered with the hassle.