My daughter (7 in july) said she wants a PSP and an ipod for her birthday so i text ex and suggested that i get the PSP and he get the ipod and he replied ok iwill have a look around at some stuff , i said want kind of stuff she already said what she wants and he said oh im going to get hera tablet. I told him no she too young for a tabletand there would be costs for internet and things that i cant afford so he said oh ok then i'll get her an ipod or mp3 player so he called last night to speak to the children (older daughter 10 and younger daughter) and when older daughter got off the phone she said to me that dad had told her not to tell me that he was getting younger daughter a tablet for her birthday.
Two issues here, 1) him encouraging daughter to keep things from me and 2) him going back on his word and just doing what he wants!
What would you do if he did get her a tablet? my two options are to send it back to him or sell it and give the money to daughter to spend on something else.