Odd friend request

[fackinell]

My ex fiancé's wife sent me friend request on fb. Bit if background: I have created something that has gained a bit of recognition (can't go into detail as it will appear to be shamelessly looking for sales and that is not my intention). this 'work' has been viewed by some as a testimony to my ex for pretty much no reason and is, in reality, no way done with him in mind. I think she has wind of this and is fishing. I'm not going to accept her as a friend but I'm extremely curious as to why she would want to befriend someone she has never met. We broke up a year before he met her. Would you ask what reason she wants to friend you or ignore? I apologise for vagueness but I really don't want to discuss the work I did as I am not 'sales fishing'.
WWYD?

Ooh busting to know what the work is!

Why don't you msg her saying hi how are you, can I help you with anything :) and see what she says then? I'd be to nosey to leave it

Is it a painting or sculpture of a massive cock?

@ fuckadoodle!! No and no to your guesses. I'm not famous or owt. It's not that exciting tbh. A lot of people have liked it much to my surprise.

InNeed this is just the encouragement I need!! I may have to now!!

I'm so nosy I would have to accept, have a good look at all her pictures and status updates and then defriend

Ahhh Deafleopard but she would see mine!! And all my daft updates. I'm swithering about PMing now but going to try not to!!!!!

Accept her, then immediately change your settings so she can't see anything, while you have a good rummage....then defriend

Deafleopard, I declined the req so would have to req her to do that. I don't know if it was just a 'I know who you are' type of point (which is a bit chilling) or a drunken laugh just to see if I'd accept. I did consider PMing him to ask if he knew why she would req as its rather odd, but we ended on bad terms (mostly my fault) and I don't think it's fair to dredge all that up again by contact. He deserves to have moved on.