My friend initiated move my one and her two daughters to another school for it being better. It's aprox less than 30 min drive. I had a hard time deciding to move thinking if I can do the run to take my only dd there. For me physically its too much stress in the morning to take additional responsibilities. I just recovered a bit from being permanently fatigued and she knows the issues I'm dealing with.
My friend though was all go even though she has three kids and one goes to the school 15 min drive in the opposite direction. When thinking of moving she indicated that she expected me to drive her kids and alternate some days so I can take her other child to his school and she can take my and her dds to our new school. I think I gave her a signal pretty clearly that this wont really work for me as I have other family obligations coming my way and won't like to drive her other child instead of taking my own to school, our kids are pretty young.
She is having hard time now taking all three to school and won't hire additional help even though they are paying for a nice car, expensive gym and huge house. She carpools with others people but tries to reciprocate them which is nearly impossible. I feel like her whole plan of putting her kids through better schooling resided on me being her additional driver. I feel guilty not helping her out but still cannot push myself to share her burden. Is this unreasonable? I'm writing because it really bugges me for so long. Thank you for your input.