I had a period as a single mum on a lowish teacher's salary in a housing association shared ownership flat. I was able to live very comfortably in a chi chi area of London, with practically no domestic repair bills. I had a newish Nissan Micra with a good warranty and free insurance initially, so minimal bills there as well, and I didn't need to use it very often because London has loads of public transport. Utilities were cheaper than in the smaller flat I had rented, because everything was new and efficient. If I needed dental care, the area was stuffed full of high quality NHS dentists to sort me out. We had excellent shops and supermarkets nearby, as well as a daily street market, so food was cheap. I lived a very nice life, thank you.
Roll forward to 2012 and all my earnings go into a large mortgage for a large but painfully cheaply built family home (thanks developers) a very long way from where I work (thanks, town planners), childcare (thanks, New Labour), commuting costs (thanks, privatised rail companies), dentistry (eg specialist root canal work - thanks, New Labour and successive Conservative Governments) and specialist physiotherapy (disability - ditto). A lot of these costs are artificially high because there has been a complete decoupling of cost from typical income, often where Government meddling has failed.
So to see a specialist endodontist in East Anglia, for example, I am forced to go private, for the simple reason that we don't have a dental school so I am not in the catchment area for referral. I attend a ridiculously posh dentists with a waiting room grander than a boutique hotel and a built in bean to cup cappuccino machine for the receptionists, who all have designer uniforms. All the latest papers and journals are in the sitting room, which also has a designer fireplace. What an unholy waste of patients' money that all is. We are there for good quality dentistry but it's been subverted into all this conspicuous excess. And my alternative NHS option would be to lose several of my teeth, apparently, according to the NHS dentist at my workplace. Currently I am shelling out £1000 each time I get a problem, therefore.
If we were able to strip out branding and profit from the provision of public services, and streamline costs properly, I think we would all see our money go a lot further, and we'd feel more affluent. Meanwhile, squeezed middle doesn't even begin the explain what most of us feel like.