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Bluebelll · 24/08/2012 03:31

My neighbour has a 14 yr old boy he is a bit behind and has ADHD, I understand that he has a few issues but his parents let him out without a care about what he is doing, he has flashed his penis at my little girl and her friend and her friends mum, he uses saws hammers and knifes in the public car park, he stands outside my house sticking his fingers up or raising his fist, he shouts up at my daughters window when it's her bed time. He steals from people's gardens, he lies about me to people. And I'm the only one in the street that ever says anything to his parents as they are all old around here and don't want any trouble, all they have to say is that it's his ADHD like its a good reason not to disaplin him, and also that even if they moved he would only do it to someone else, so basically she's making it sound like I should put up with this! I have four young children, oldest 9 youngest 4 months and I can't even take them out the front of the house to ride there bikes anymore as he will follow, he can be a nice boy but I don't want him round my house or garden but the more I ignore him the worse he gets and his mum reckons he's doing it for attention! Well I have my own kids to think about. Why can't she keep an eye on him to prevent this from happening? I've broke down at the health visitors about it as I feel like a bad mum for not letting my children play when they want, he even tells them to do things from his back garden when they r in there back garden, the health visitor wanted to call social services but they will no that any report would have come from my complaint one way or another as I'm the only one that has the guts to confront them, please give me some advice! What would you do? I feel so depressed about this and have even had panic attacks.

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Elmofan · 24/08/2012 15:10

Oh this is quite sad really :( what a horrible situation to be in . I'm not sure tbh what to advise . How would you cope with the fall out with his parents if you do complain to SS ?
Could you move ? Do they own their house or rent it ? if they rent you could always complain to their landlord .

Bluebelll · 24/08/2012 16:29

My children are settled into good schools and I feel I shouldn't have to move, they rent their home, and maybe instead of complaining I could talk to the landlord and go from there. What ever the health visitor does is up to her really at least then I can put hand on heart and say it wasn't me! Thanks for ur reply x

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