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Bit of nastiness towards ds2

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missmapp · 21/07/2012 15:00

Ds2 is very quiet at pre-school, very shy and doesnt really talk. Today he went to a party ( one of the only ones he has been to this year) and when he was on the bouncy castle, he was being really pushed around by two other boys. They were pushing him, waiting for him to stand up again, then saying'oh hes up agiain' and then pushinng him down again. To be fair, ds2 was laughing at first, but then climbed off and was very quiet again. i was able to sort it out, just said 'XX doesnt want to play th pushing game, okay' and then kept an eye and gave a few stares, BUT when I was more worried that ds2 thought this was ok. I am really not precious, and know ds2 is not perfect, but I was quiet upset at this

When i spoke to him, he said that these boys often pushed him but he was too scared to say anything. He has strted being really rough at home recently, and Im wondering if this is why.

SO......., do I say anyhting in Sept. He is starting school with these boys, should I mention it to the new teacher, or just keep an eye and talk to him. He is so quiet, I m worried it will keep happening without anyone noticing.

WWYD ?

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missmapp · 21/07/2012 15:21

Sorry for the rubbish spelling, rushing as usual!

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Thumbwitch · 21/07/2012 15:27

Has pre-school finished now? If not, or you can in any way get hold of his teacher there, I would ask if they had noticed anything going on with your DS and these boys (or any other children).
If the teacher says yes, then I would definitely mention it at the school in September; if the teacher says no, then I would think twice about it but still say to the new teacher that your DS is a quiet lad who doesn't let on when things are bothering him so could he/she keep an eye on him please?

missmapp · 21/07/2012 15:44

pre-school has finished now. Thats a good idea ,thumbwitch,

I know I am worrying, he just seemed so little today, that I suddenly felt very protective!!

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littlemissbroody26 · 21/07/2012 21:25

Could you do some "don't push me" practice at home? so tell him what to say and how to say it, get him to push you 1st and say "don't push me" and then get him to do the same thing.

I hope it goes ok when he starts school.

Convert · 21/07/2012 21:27

Oh, the poor little thing. I taught my boys 5 & 3 to say in a loud voice, 'I don't like that. Don't do it'

I made them practise it and it seems to have helped a little. They now say it to DH when he is tickling them Grin

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