My partner my daughter and I live with my mother until we can save up some money and move to Cornwall we are stuck here :( anyway my mother has this habit of interference she will say infront of my child her opinions on what she thinks we are doing wrong with our child, whether it be my partner messing around with her playing silly games or the fact that I'd rather shout at my daughter than smack her bottom when she's annoyed me, whatever I Do I seem to be doing something wrong playing the wrong music or the wrong games or punishing her wrong we use the naughty step that was wrong so it changed to sending her to her room but that's not right either I can't win I just feel like telling her to be her mum and leave me alone, I don't care how she brought me up as far as I'm concerned she didn't do the best of jobs I am unemployed 24 with a 4yr old daughter. Please give me some advice, what do I do?