Hello, can someone please talk to me. I need some inpartial advice. I'm married with a 5 month old son. My husbands job is a nightmare at the moment, taking him away for many days if not weeks from us and he is missing out on my little man. Not only this but all the perks that have kept him in the job have now been taken away from him, hence he needs to get out and find a more family friendly job.
My husbands family are a waste of time and never make any effort to see us however my parents live on the doorstep and see little man at least 4 times a week and adore their only grandchild.
My husband was offered a job today in the highlands of scotland with great hours, great money and would allow me to be a stay at home mum. It would also take us away from a busyish village to a remote farmhouse which would be great. The only thing is my parents. It breaks my heart thinking of having to tell them I could be taking their grandchild away from them. They would be unable to come to scotland due to animal and work commitments and my husband has said he will arrange to fly down to the southwest of england to see them for a week a month. Am I depriving my son and know his dotting grandparents??? Am I depriving them of seeing their only grandchhild????? Our little family I'm sure would live a better rural life with animals and more time and quality time with dad and son..... Am I being selfish????? Am I putting my parents first?????? Help I really need a friend to give me some advice. Thank you for reading