I have had two friends for about 15 years now and we have always got on great and supported each other. Up until recently (last year or so). I have been out with them and they have more or less ignored me, not deliberatly I don't think, more that I feel they had no interest in me. Then there was a time when they both got quite annoyed with me for not going to a party with them ( I had very little money and couldn't afford it as well as actually preferring to spend time with my children as I work all week). I couldn't believe they were so cross about it and didn't understand. They said I never bother to go out with them but from my perspective I feel I see them quite regularly when I get a baby sitter. I feel the two of them have become very clicky and I know they have been speaking badly about me behind my back. I recently ended the friendships and they have both been in touch saying how they don't want to lose my friendship but I am not sure I can forgive them, and am not convinced they are doing it for reasons other than they didn't like me rejecting them. Now here's the problem, I am getting married in March and now have to send out invites....I don't know whether to include them or not?? Any advice would be much appreciated! Thanks 