I have this friend. She sometimes makes bad decisions. She a lovely lady, she's a single mother to 2 boys.
The eldest is 15 and the youngest is 3 . We (I thought) were very good friends, she has other friends who she talks to and i'm nothing but completely open and honest with her even if she or I doesn't agree with it.
Her eldest has been given her grief for a while now about 15 months, he's been arrested for assaulting her and other people, he's been kicked out of school but all in al I'veknown him for a few years, he's a good boy, he's just fallen in with the wrong crowd.
She has no-one in the way of family around her, so she only has friends to talk to and confide in.
She was round mine weekly always on a saturday and sometimes on a sunday too for about 2 years.
She met a man she jumped into into bed and feelings far too quickly as far as i was concerned and she was dumped. She thought she was pregnant, now this isnt a new situation she's been in, she has already had a realtionship, albeit a short one, with both of her childrens dads.
She thought she was pregnant and to be honest I didnt react too well.
I told her I didnt think she should have an abortion, she should have been more careful, she rushed into it etc.
I admit I acted hastily and apologised afterward, I told her i'm her friend and I will support her I dont believe I was very tactful and understanding to her circumstances and after I saw her I felt it was a bit frosty.
Since then she has put me off going round there and I have put her off coming here (unrelated, it's a personal decision as we are going through it atm and would rather go to her house )
I asked to go visit her tonight and again was put off. I feel like this friendship has reached a stalemate.
Should I just turn up with wine at the weekend, or should I just admit that the friendship is over??
WWYD?