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DH said he hates me

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TotallyandUtterly · 28/04/2011 22:17

DH has been ill this week so I've left him in bed whilst I've coped with our two babies, keeping the house, cooking and also working, etc. He's been weird with me all week and really off. Tonight, I asked him to mop the kitchen floor. Hardly a huge task and everything else was done. He huffed and puffed and shook his head but did it. He then came in glaring at me so I said 'hate me all you want, it needed doing and I've been run off my feet' (I have dreadful toothache and feel poorly too, plus it seems like I'm miscarrying on the coil as I've had a positive preg test and milky boobs, hormones, etc.

So he said 'Yeah I do hate you, I've had enough'. I'm obviously devastated. I marched out and later he came in and said 'we need to get this shit sorted'. I said there was no coming back from saying he hated me and so he said 'oh so you want to finish it' and saw his arse, but also kept asking if I definately want to finish it. It's childish really and tensions are high. We've both got loads on.

WWYD?

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LoopyLoopsNincompoop · 28/04/2011 22:21

I would firstly sort out if you are indeed miscarrying, and orgnaise yourself so you have time and space to cope with that. Do you have family who can help with the children?

You need time apart, maybe forever, maybe just a bit, but being together right now isn't helping.

do you work? Could you take the children somewhere for a week or two? Someone who could support you (friend, mum etc.)?

PonceyMcPonce · 28/04/2011 22:21

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thisisyesterday · 28/04/2011 22:22

well.... do you want to finish it?

i think you need to talk to him, not us

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atswimtwolengths · 29/04/2011 19:16

I'm so sorry if you're miscarrying.

When you say he was ill, what was the matter with him?

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