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sensitive-sharing a room with someone who gets up for prayers

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marialuisa · 06/04/2011 12:57

DD is going on an overnight trip with school and will be sharing a room with a good friend who is muslim. DD's friend has already said she is packing an alarm clock to make sure she wakes up for prayers (fajr and sunrise). DD was worried as friend has said she always manages to go back to sleep (used to it!) but DD finds sleep hard and is an early riser anyway. I've checked the prayer times and the friend will be getting up at approx 3.45am and 4.45am. DD is very unlikely to go back to sleep and will have had a late night beforehand. The class teacher has already mentioned in passing that she gets up to make sure the kids who need to pray do so, so no chance that over-tired/excited friend will forget to set the alarm clock and sleep through.

Normally, as it's one night I'd not worry but when they get back the following day DD has a sports competition and if she's only had 4-5 hours sleep she'll be dangerous! The children are sharing in pairs and within the girls' friendship group there is another muslim girl (who I'm sure will also get up to pray) so it would seem more sensible for the 2 to share.....Would you suggest this to the teachers or wait and see if it's suggested? DD was initially excited about sharing with her friend as friend is not allowed on sleepovers but is getting worried about the sleep thing. She brought this up herself with no prompting from me as TBH the prayers thing hadn't crossed my mind. The girls are 9 BTW.

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Clarnico · 06/04/2011 12:58

I would raise it with the teacher.

Though tbh I wouldn't expect children on a trip away with the school, sharing bedrooms, to get a good night's sleep anyway.

nickelbabyhatcher · 06/04/2011 13:00

surely it would make more sense to put all the girls who need to wake up in the night in the same room together?

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mercibucket · 06/04/2011 13:04

they're going to be knackered anyway but it does seem to make more sense for those who plan on getting up at certain times to pray to be sharing rooms

cookcleanerchaufferetc · 10/04/2011 19:09

Surely you have every right to ask that those praying sleep together ..... That would be the logical solution!

kreecherlivesupstairs · 12/04/2011 09:17

Another one here who agrees with clarnico. My DD has been on several school trips and comes back absolutely shattered.
The excitement is too much you see.

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