So do I buy a present or not??

[SparklyGothKat]

My kids are going to my ex's new girlfriends daughters party today. Normally I buy a present when they go to a party. But I am thinking that ex should buy the present this time. Is that right?

I think whoever is 'sending' them should buy the present. If they are are at your ex's this weekend he should, same as washing faces & dressing them in party clothes.

He doesn't have them at weekends. He is picking them up from my house

bit late to tell him now isn't it?

I think he should have arranged something but won't have done so it's up to you really. Difficult one.

Text ohm to make sure he has bought a present?

Tbh I can't stand his gf. But it's not the lo fault. I was going to get something this morning but then I thought that I shouldn't have to

Do you think she will probably "lose" it if it's come from you anyway!? (The GF, not the child)
Send a card and have a chat with Ex pointing out that you also won't be responsible for buying his family presents from the children or his mother's Mothers Day cards any more. Mine was shocked by that .