My brother's ex-wife is getting married again and has invited me and my family to her wedding (church and evening do). She lives very close to me and I see her at least once a week and we get on well (she is the mother of my nieces). However, I feel very uncomfortable about going to the wedding (she has even asked if my DD will be a bridesmaid). I don't want to fall out with her by saying we won't come. I really do wish her and her new husband all the happiness in the world but it somehow doesn't feel right for me to go. It's going to be a big church do and there will be lots of people there I see at the school gate everyday. My brother is happy for me to go but he lives locally as well and I just don't want to fuel any village gossip. Help!