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AFEICA · 15/10/2010 10:40

My daughters college friend was tragically killed in an accident with an alleged drunk driver on Wednesday night. DD wants to visit where it happened and take flowers, I am apprehensive at letting her.
What should I do?

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Plumm · 15/10/2010 10:41

If she wants to go let her, but go along for supper and comfort.

maryz · 15/10/2010 10:50

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AMumInScotland · 15/10/2010 11:03

Can you take her? If she's overwhelmed by her feelings it would be better to have someone with her. It's important to let people mark a death in the way that makes sense for them - and putting flowers at RTA sites has become the visible way to mark them.

AFEICA · 15/10/2010 15:14

Thank you everyone.

DD and some other friends have gone together, I did offer to take them but I think they all wanted to go alone.

I am left waiting at home, kettle at the ready and lots of tissues and a shoulder to cry on for when they all get back. I only hope that should the driver be proven guilty of drink driving the punishment reflects the total waste of a young life, somehow I doubt it.

Thanking you all again!

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