I Fell out with a best mate of 20years or more earlier this year (feb), she said she was too depressed for me to keep flitting in and out of her life I either needed to be there or just disappear. I didnt choose the option to disappear I just thought if she felt like that after 20yrs then its best we just carry on our seperate ways. I have an 18mnth old son and alot of the animosity between us came about when I was 6ish months pregnant, I believe she couldn't cope with the fact that my time was split between being a mum and a friend. Now a copule of days before her wedding I decided I should post a gift to her becasue I still have feelings for her and wanted to wish her well, I didnt expect any reply as she deleted me from FB and has not contacted me at all. But now today I have a text message saying they would love it if me my partner and son went to the wedding tomorrow. What would you do?