Best mates wedding

[Lauralastic]

I Fell out with a best mate of 20years or more earlier this year (feb), she said she was too depressed for me to keep flitting in and out of her life I either needed to be there or just disappear. I didnt choose the option to disappear I just thought if she felt like that after 20yrs then its best we just carry on our seperate ways. I have an 18mnth old son and alot of the animosity between us came about when I was 6ish months pregnant, I believe she couldn't cope with the fact that my time was split between being a mum and a friend. Now a copule of days before her wedding I decided I should post a gift to her becasue I still have feelings for her and wanted to wish her well, I didnt expect any reply as she deleted me from FB and has not contacted me at all. But now today I have a text message saying they would love it if me my partner and son went to the wedding tomorrow. What would you do?

[overweightnoverdrawn]

go simple life is too short .

[BikeRunSki]

Go.

She has missed you and has been stubborn, but has realised the error of her ways.


I suspect you will never get back together if you don't go.

[yama]

Definitely go.

[DilysPrice]

You made the first move, she's acknowledged it, and made a move back - you should definitely go if you can. This is a happy ending waiting to be grasped.

[LoveBeingOnEbay]

Another vote for go, you offered to open communication by sending the gift and she has replied very positively.

[LoveBeingOnEbay]

lol at cross posts with dilysprice

[CarGirl]

If she was depressed at the time it sounds like she said those things in a very poor frame of mind.

I would def go, it's a shame to waste 20 years of friendship when you've offered an olive branch.

[gettingtogrips]

Ooh yes, go. sounds really exciting. If you don't go, wouldn't you really regret it?

[givemesomecandy]

Another vote for go!

[nowherewoman]

Go!!!!

[expatinscotland]

go along

[chitchat09]

Did you go?