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Best mates wedding

13 replies

Lauralastic · 11/09/2010 08:25

I Fell out with a best mate of 20years or more earlier this year (feb), she said she was too depressed for me to keep flitting in and out of her life I either needed to be there or just disappear. I didnt choose the option to disappear I just thought if she felt like that after 20yrs then its best we just carry on our seperate ways. I have an 18mnth old son and alot of the animosity between us came about when I was 6ish months pregnant, I believe she couldn't cope with the fact that my time was split between being a mum and a friend. Now a copule of days before her wedding I decided I should post a gift to her becasue I still have feelings for her and wanted to wish her well, I didnt expect any reply as she deleted me from FB and has not contacted me at all. But now today I have a text message saying they would love it if me my partner and son went to the wedding tomorrow. What would you do?

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overweightnoverdrawn · 11/09/2010 12:49

go simple life is too short .

BikeRunSki · 11/09/2010 12:51

Go.

She has missed you and has been stubborn, but has realised the error of her ways.

I suspect you will never get back together if you don't go.

yama · 11/09/2010 12:51

Definitely go.

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DilysPrice · 11/09/2010 12:53

You made the first move, she's acknowledged it, and made a move back - you should definitely go if you can. This is a happy ending waiting to be grasped.

LoveBeingOnEbay · 11/09/2010 12:54

Another vote for go, you offered to open communication by sending the gift and she has replied very positively.

LoveBeingOnEbay · 11/09/2010 12:54

lol at cross posts with dilysprice

CarGirl · 11/09/2010 12:54

If she was depressed at the time it sounds like she said those things in a very poor frame of mind.

I would def go, it's a shame to waste 20 years of friendship when you've offered an olive branch.

StewieGriffinsMom · 11/09/2010 12:55

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gettingtogrips · 11/09/2010 12:56

Ooh yes, go. sounds really exciting. If you don't go, wouldn't you really regret it?

givemesomecandy · 12/09/2010 00:25

Another vote for go!

nowherewoman · 12/09/2010 00:31

Go!!!!

expatinscotland · 12/09/2010 00:32

go along

chitchat09 · 12/09/2010 21:17

Did you go?

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