In desperate need of advice.

[housewife19]

Anyone got some advice ? My best friend is on a self destruct course, after 20 odd yrs of marriage,she has decided to play the field with three different men, all unbeknown to her hubby. She tells me what she is doing,and i try to diswayed her from this course. But now her husband,also a friend is asking me for advice. My own husband tells me to ditch her, but she is my friend and i think she is going to need me,she doesnt seem to care what effect it will all have on her children if it all comes out. What do i do ?

Stay out of it is what you do. Can only end in tears. Yours.

Tell your friend that you don't want to know any more details than you already do, and that you can't spend time with her while she's behaving like this.

Tell the husband that you can't betray any confidences but that he has your support/sympathy.

Then keep your head down and be there to pick up some of the pieces when it all implodes.

Thanks, people,
I think your right "Hassled" thats what my instincts are telling me. I dont want to loose her as a friend but this is not the friend i know, and this is so removed from what i believe to be write,that i feel a little lost .