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I am highly intelligent, ask me anything

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nolinkname · 22/02/2026 09:01

Using standard IQ scales/assessments I am highly intelligent. I have also done some research into high intelligence. Being highly intelligent has advantages and drawbacks. Ask me anything :-)

(Just to preempt some comments: No, I don’t think intelligent people are better human beings than other people. I think qualities such as being kind are more important for example. No, intelligent people are not always ‘better for society’, there is some evidence, for example, that really highly intelligent people carry out proportionally somewhat more crimes (white collar). No, I don’t look down on less intelligent people (sometimes I envy them), but it can obviously be a bit difficult to connect if you have very different frames of reference. No, intelligence does not have any direct links to social skills (positive or negative).)

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hepsitemiz · 22/02/2026 10:33

Are you married to @AutismPosts ?

RememberBeKindWithKaren · 22/02/2026 10:33

Pineneedlesincarpet · 22/02/2026 10:28

I put very little time and no absolutely no thought into any question I answer. No need. That's because my high intelligence means I have predicted what the content of the last post will be end of this thread before the thread even started.

Let's see if I'm right. I will keep the answer to myself for now if you don't mind.

Ok thanks. So you don't find yourself caught up in answering any particular types of questions because you can predict the final posts ? Sorry but I don't follow you.

You have no interest in any particular subjects?

StrongLikeMamma · 22/02/2026 10:33

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 09:17

Completely agree that IQ is just one measure, that's why I tried to exemplify. 'Emotional intelligence' is a bit of a weird concept though. I'd say I am as 'emotionally intelligent' as the average person, at least. I'm very sensitive and easily cry when I hear about horrible things or think about the state of the world.

No I am not autistic.

(I'll ignore pointless questions. Feel free to move to another thread if this does not interest you or you feel provoked, it is very common when intelligence is discussed.)

Asking if you’re autistic isn’t offensive op. Many people are.

Emotional intelligence isn’t just about crying at sad things.

Sskka · 22/02/2026 10:33

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 10:11

Probably often? I don't know. I love to be challenged so if I connect with someone who can really teach me things/make me see things in a new way, that's great!

That’s a surprisingly superficial answer. One might think a highly intelligent person would have more observations than that.

CamillaMcCauley · 22/02/2026 10:34

MonstrousRegimentRocks · 22/02/2026 10:29

In many countries there are all sorts of trends.
It's certainly not applicable in the UK.
Don't make sweeping statements like this.

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Also not applicable in New Zealand. C’mon, OP, why don’t you really lean into an answer instead of spouting dull generalities and dazzle us with what that super-intelligence looks like on full beam?

Rainydaycat · 22/02/2026 10:34

I also have a high IQ. As a child other kids bored me. I hated school. I have a deep emotional intelligence. Easily frustrated by others.

dragonfruit8 · 22/02/2026 10:34

hepsitemiz · 22/02/2026 10:33

Are you married to @AutismPosts ?

OK, that made me laugh, although I do very much feel for that poster, who is doing a great job in the situation.

zurigo · 22/02/2026 10:34

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 10:32

I see what you mean - I meant questions like 'do you have a cat'! I should have been clearer perhaps, apologies, and actually removed that example when I commented to not single anyone out.

That wasn't such a silly question as it may seem. Courtesy of AI: Studies suggest that cat owners may, on average, have higher IQ scores and higher levels of education compared to dog owners. Research indicates that "cat people" are often more introverted, open-minded, sensitive, and non-conformist, which are traits sometimes associated with higher intelligence. As a cat-owner, I concur 😁

MonstrousRegimentRocks · 22/02/2026 10:34

CamillaMcCauley · 22/02/2026 10:34

Also not applicable in New Zealand. C’mon, OP, why don’t you really lean into an answer instead of spouting dull generalities and dazzle us with what that super-intelligence looks like on full beam?

Yes, x 💯

MonstrousRegimentRocks · 22/02/2026 10:35

zurigo · 22/02/2026 10:34

That wasn't such a silly question as it may seem. Courtesy of AI: Studies suggest that cat owners may, on average, have higher IQ scores and higher levels of education compared to dog owners. Research indicates that "cat people" are often more introverted, open-minded, sensitive, and non-conformist, which are traits sometimes associated with higher intelligence. As a cat-owner, I concur 😁

Now that's interesting! Genuinely.

MyThreeWords · 22/02/2026 10:35

It would have been much better, OP, if you had titled your thread "I score very highly in IQ assessments, AMA."

IQ assessments are a metric enabling rigorous comparisons along a few crudely operationalised dimensions of intelligence. Intelligence itself is something much broader, even encompassing psychological characteristics as well as a wider range of neurological capacities than those that we currently understand. I wouldn't call someone highly intelligent based on their IQ score any more than I would call them beautiful (or even healthy) based on their BMI.

I find it very unusual that someone who is a lecturer would feel so wedded to their IQ score. It is usually valued most by people who feel that they have no means of demonstrating to others that they are clever, or of reassuring themselves that other people see them as clever. Once people have qualifications and well-regarded professional employment they tend not to care so much about IQ

RedToothBrush · 22/02/2026 10:36

What type of house did you grow up in?

Do you watch reality TV?

RememberBeKindWithKaren · 22/02/2026 10:36

BeanQuisine · 22/02/2026 10:29

Do you try knickers on in shops?

Good point. This is what we need to know

MonstrousRegimentRocks · 22/02/2026 10:36

Do you read widely?

Ihateboris · 22/02/2026 10:36

CamillaMcCauley · 22/02/2026 09:08

Do you know how and why to use the quote function?

🤣🤣👌

TheOnlyLivingBoyInNewCross · 22/02/2026 10:37

Have you ever considered using your high intelligence to learn how to use the semi-colon?

I agree with others: you’re claiming to be of high intelligence but there’s no actual evidence of it in the way you write or the points you make. Are you perhaps very bored and attempting to wind up Mumsnet?

Sunnydaysandcrispyleaves · 22/02/2026 10:37

loislovesstewie · 22/02/2026 10:14

What is the meaning of life?

Surely ‘everyone’ knows that the answer to this is 42 :)

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 10:38

I don’t play any instrument well at all.

Trans women – I haven’t followed the debate enough/read up enough to have a relevant view.

Fivetriangulartrees: ‘What other parts of your identity are important to you? What do you have to fall back on if your intelligence goes?’
I try to be kind, helpful and supportive. That’s probably what I find most important. I have been told that I am a good listener.

OtterlyAstounding: ’Do you think that IQ tests are genuinely meaningful indicators of actual intelligence, beyond a very rough and narrow estimate?’
I think they can be helpful, especially for people with spiky profiles or disabilities, but I don’t think they should be treated as gospel

GeneralPeter: ‘Intelligence currently gives huge advantages in many life outcomes. What do you think AI will do to this?’
This is an interesting question. I don’t have a good answer but it will clearly change things.

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MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 22/02/2026 10:38

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 10:24

Comments like these were expected. People in general love to point out and try to make the case that highly intelligent people are socially difficult etc. I haven't seen any research indicating anything like that in a group of people who are equals. (Crude example, in a group of 5-year olds you were expected to play with you might stand out too, possibly as having poor social skills.)

People are different and that is ok. People have different social needs, some people struggle more with not being very similar to most other people than others do.

There is no need for you to try to hobby analyse me though and I don't feel the need to share all thoughts with you ;-) People do not only start threads about things that are the most important part of their identity.

Given that you're supposedly highly intelligent, I'm surprised that your reading comprehension isn't a bit better.

My post categorically wasn't making the case that highly intelligent people are socially difficult. Quite the opposite, in fact, I was making the point that many highly intelligent people don't struggle to connect with others at all. I was therefore curious to know if you ascribed your self-confessed difficulties in connecting with other people to your intelligence or some other factor.

Personally, I don't think that people who are highly intelligent have difficulties in connecting with other people because of their intelligence at all. However, I do think that a subsection of highly intelligent people who struggle to connect with others for other reasons often find it more comfortable to tell themselves that it is because of their high intelligence. I guess adopting this explanation releases them from the need to confront a much more troubling reality.

As to my second question, there is an irony in starting a thread called "ask me anything" if it is only your intention to answer the questions that don't make you feel uncomfortable. You're right,of course, you don't need to share all thoughts with me, or with anyone. But then why start the thread?

It was a perfectly reasonable question imo , and I stand by the fact that it simply wouldn't occur to you to start a thread like this if "being highly intelligent" wasn't an important part of your identity. Whether you want to acknowledge that or not.

SerendipityJane · 22/02/2026 10:38

It would have been much better, OP, if you had titled your thread "I score very highly in IQ assessments, AMA."

That would have been the intelligent approach.

researchers3 · 22/02/2026 10:38

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 09:53

Yes, it was an official Mensa test in my second language, so I'd arguably have had an even higher score if I had understood all words ;-)

You are free to think whatever you want about me and anyone else writing here. It is not my life aim to come across as intelligent, rather the opposite probably, since it often leads to so much anger/annoyance and so many misunderstandings if I am myself completely.

I don't think you are coming across as arrogant or superior at all.

Cerialkiller · 22/02/2026 10:39

Indianajet · 22/02/2026 09:55

I have often debated that with my sons!

This seems obvious to me. We don't wear ties around our necks (under the chin) but around our collar (where neck meets shoulder) so this should be the same for giraffes.

If it was at the top of the neck it would drag on the ground when eating grass or tangle in branches when eating from trees so not practical in that position anyway. It also looks unprofessional imo and if I were interviewing a giraffe with a tie at the top of their neck I would assume they were a bit dim.

Can giraffe hooves even reach the top of their neck to put it on or is it a 'lick your own elbow' situation?? 🤔

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 22/02/2026 10:39

Do you have at least your fair share of common sense, too? Because the cleverest people I know, academically speaking (PhDs) often seem decidedly short of it!

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 10:39

InfoSecInTheCity · 22/02/2026 09:44

I also have a brain that processes like this, I’m able to process information very quickly, identify trends, foresee future possible outcomes, retain and link large sets of data and relate it back to the context I’m working in to apply it easily. It’s been very helpful in my career, I work in cybersecurity so it’s constantly evolving and very varied which keeps my mind active.

i do find it very awkward when people notice and comment though. I’m currently working on a very significant opportunity who is highly detailed, thousands of pages of requirements and contract language and am in meetings it’s obvious I can recall details other haven’t gotten around of reading yet or haven’t understood and people keep making these surprised comments asking if I’ve really read everything and understood it, or how great it is to have a human encyclopaedia working on the case. I’m never sure how to respond.

I can relate. I would rather get compliments about being friendly or helpful :-)

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SerendipityJane · 22/02/2026 10:40

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 22/02/2026 10:39

Do you have at least your fair share of common sense, too? Because the cleverest people I know, academically speaking (PhDs) often seem decidedly short of it!

Weirdly they don't do CSQ tests.