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I am highly intelligent, ask me anything

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nolinkname · 22/02/2026 09:01

Using standard IQ scales/assessments I am highly intelligent. I have also done some research into high intelligence. Being highly intelligent has advantages and drawbacks. Ask me anything :-)

(Just to preempt some comments: No, I don’t think intelligent people are better human beings than other people. I think qualities such as being kind are more important for example. No, intelligent people are not always ‘better for society’, there is some evidence, for example, that really highly intelligent people carry out proportionally somewhat more crimes (white collar). No, I don’t look down on less intelligent people (sometimes I envy them), but it can obviously be a bit difficult to connect if you have very different frames of reference. No, intelligence does not have any direct links to social skills (positive or negative).)

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nolinkname · 22/02/2026 11:57

dragonfruit8 · 22/02/2026 11:07

I think you are out of date with the school system. Most schools use a range of assessment types to be fairer, not just exams.

It is more or less only exams that pave the way for education at the next stage in the UK!

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Pineneedlesincarpet · 22/02/2026 11:57

OliviaWhatshername · 22/02/2026 11:56

Anyone who is really that intelligent would find better things to do with their time on a Sunday morning than boast on MN.

Good perceptive point.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 22/02/2026 11:58

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 11:51

I know that one reason is that people don't like being told that they are wrong, even if they know/realise they are wrong, even if the person saying something is as careful as possible. That is one reason why I sometimes don't feel that I can offer advice - 'kill the messenger'.

(I had a job interview once where I was told something that was factually wrong. It would have been better for me to pretend that they were right, but I didn't. My heart wasn't in the role anyway, I've pretended in other situations.)

Thanks for answering.

Perhaps you could benefit from working on your communication skills around this area in particular, so that you are able to put things across in a manner that doesn't accidentally come across as arrogant?

It is actually perfectly possible to tell people that they've got things wrong without sounding arrogant or patronising.

scottishgirl69 · 22/02/2026 11:58

KhakiCrow · 22/02/2026 11:52

Does anyone else find this thread a bit strange when there's a parallel thread running by a women who's husband is having a manic episode and convinced he's super intelligent? Was this posted by the husband?

I don't think so tbh

apeaceful2026 · 22/02/2026 11:58

Where's Madeline McCann?

Parisian14 · 22/02/2026 11:58

Isit2026yet · 22/02/2026 09:42

@nolinkname was this an official MENSA test or just one online. You're still not answering the IQ question.

My thoughts are there are people commenting on this post a lot more intelligent than yourself!

Honestly, no need for rudeness.

ukgone2pot · 22/02/2026 12:00

Are you a member of Mensa?

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 12:01

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 22/02/2026 11:12

So, OP, you said that you started this thread to get insights into how others think of you. So, what insights have you gathered from the thread so far?

And how would you rate your level of self awareness in general?

I'd say I'm not surprised about the fact that to many people it is most important to push others down, to try to diagnose them, to try to find holes in what they've said etc, to say 'funny' things etc. That is often the case when intelligence is discussed (using any definition) and it is yet another indication that it is still not ok to discuss/talk about intelligence without making people annoyed/provoked.

There have been very interesting questions too, very interesting to hear from other people in academia for example, whether they agree or disagree.

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BunnyLake · 22/02/2026 12:01

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 11:56

I do feel that I should do the best I can to help the world, but I think that is more based to my personality actually.

OP you seem to be sidestepping any queries on emotional intelligence, or how you view the importance of EQ (lower than, equal to, more important than IQ?). What worth is IQ without at least a matching EQ on a personal level (not just for you but the population at large).

Catwalking · 22/02/2026 12:01

No.

Guidanceplease20 · 22/02/2026 12:02

The most intelligent person ive met was useless at putting together IKEA furniture and didnt have a scooby when it came to resolving any house maintantence problems.

Are you like that too?

BunnyLake · 22/02/2026 12:05

Guidanceplease20 · 22/02/2026 12:02

The most intelligent person ive met was useless at putting together IKEA furniture and didnt have a scooby when it came to resolving any house maintantence problems.

Are you like that too?

A lot of very intelligent people have no common sense. I suppose they are too preoccupied with data to acquire any.

narkyspirit · 22/02/2026 12:06

How are you with practical skills?

I teach people maritime courses and find very intelligent people sometimes struggle with the fact that a lot of our calculations are using predictions therefore predicting when we will arrive.

The practical elements (on Water)of what we do,I find intelligent people really struggle with

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 12:06

MonstrousRegimentRocks · 22/02/2026 11:20

Yet you're critical of school systems which focus on results?

Yes, I think there has to be a balance. Both systems have issues. The UK/English total focus on results from an early age, few subjects studied, much harder to get a university education if you 'fail' when you are 15 etc is hugely detrimental to so many young people who need a bit more time/had mental health issues at the time of their GCSEs/had family issues etc. There must be ways to 'make it' even if you aren't ready when you are 15.

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dontcallhimpunch · 22/02/2026 12:09

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 12:01

I'd say I'm not surprised about the fact that to many people it is most important to push others down, to try to diagnose them, to try to find holes in what they've said etc, to say 'funny' things etc. That is often the case when intelligence is discussed (using any definition) and it is yet another indication that it is still not ok to discuss/talk about intelligence without making people annoyed/provoked.

There have been very interesting questions too, very interesting to hear from other people in academia for example, whether they agree or disagree.

People aren't trying to diagnose you, that's a very simplistic reading of the contributions here. Many of us have first hand experience with highly intelligent people and there is undoubtedly a strong association with autism and ADHD. This is not to mean that all people who score highly on traditional IQ tests also are neurodivergent.

You haven't connected very well with your 'askers' and in fact do not come across as a particularly bright spark but then that's probably because you are communicating and not problem solving (are you good at problem solving?).

Being able to analyse thing on the fly can be very helpful but it is the ability to emotionally connect to situations in the moment in real life that is equally important otherwise you will always feel out of step with the world.

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 12:09

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 22/02/2026 11:25

I honestly can't think of anything worse than joining a society full of people who are unhealthily preoccupied by their own ability to score highly on deeply flawed intelligence tests.

What makes you think that Mensa is 'full of people who are unhealthily preoccupied by their own ability to score highly...'? Some probably are - there are annoying people everywhere - but this probably says more about your lack of understanding that people have many different sides and the IQ is just one (often very small) part of it.

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Tsfor2s · 22/02/2026 12:09

I’m no intellectual but I’m bright enough to know this is just a daft wind-up thread.

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 12:10

KellySeveride · 22/02/2026 11:27

I have an IQ in the 160 range. I also have adhd….its made for an interesting combination 🤣.

In my experience intelligence on its own means absolutely fuck all with regards to how well you do in life. For me it just means that all the people around me get super surprised when I pick a new thing up in minutes when it’s taken them days.

There are many many many people who are more in the average intelligence range who perform much better at daily life than I ever will.

I don't think it means fuck all - there are links - but it definitely does not mean everything.

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dontcallhimpunch · 22/02/2026 12:11

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 12:09

What makes you think that Mensa is 'full of people who are unhealthily preoccupied by their own ability to score highly...'? Some probably are - there are annoying people everywhere - but this probably says more about your lack of understanding that people have many different sides and the IQ is just one (often very small) part of it.

Lack of understanding

Here we have it. And you re complaining people are putting you down. You really, really need to work on your communication skills. Should be a top priority.

CarlaLemarchant · 22/02/2026 12:11

How much do you earn and how old are you?

OneNewLeader · 22/02/2026 12:11

Were your parents highly intelligent? Did they value education?

dontcallhimpunch · 22/02/2026 12:12

dontcallhimpunch · 22/02/2026 12:11

Lack of understanding

Here we have it. And you re complaining people are putting you down. You really, really need to work on your communication skills. Should be a top priority.

And you will probably read this comment as putting you down

InMyOodie · 22/02/2026 12:13

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 10:44

Thank you, it is not easy writing in your third language sometimes ;-) I hope it makes you feel good about yourself point such a thing out, that is the most important thing.

Such an unpleasant response to an obvious question. I'm sure many of us were wondering why your standard of written English wasn't better.

Driftingawaynow · 22/02/2026 12:13

Amazing how every thread is an opportunity for the gender critical lobby to gather and start throwing rocks

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 12:13

hepsitemiz · 22/02/2026 11:29

You say:

my life would clearly be easier if I were able to spend less time thinking about difficult things/the state of the world etc.

But you also say that you don't have a view on the trans debate as you've not looked into it... but, have you really given it no thought? I mean, what with all the different ways in which trans issues have impacted academia - the sector in which you work? I'm thinking of things like academic freedom, freedom of speech, platforming and de-platforming, research, the tension between DEI and the protection of sex-based rights such as access to single-sex dorms/colleges and participation in sports?

I've definitely given it some thought, but I don't think my thoughts would be valuable enough for anyone to use as a reason to think in a certain way. Others can explain this/debate this much better than me, so what is the point in me offering my comparatively probably very basic understanding?

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