In pain from abuse

[bpdmama]

I seen a message on my partners phone with a name I asked who it was he got angry pushed me I fell off the bed but my feet it’s swollen can’t walk on it and he blood blistered my finger all this from the fall my thigh hurts and he threw a bit of water at me? If it’s nothing why do all this now he is refusing to leave me house. He don’t this before I asked him who someone was he pulled my hair and nearly pushed me down the stairs I’m 6 months pregnant I wasn’t to get out but too scared to get police involved as from past experience social services I’m in bits I’ve wasn’t like this before I got pregnant please help me

Just phone the police.

Literally no-one here can help you, or keep you/your baby safe.

We're so sorry to hear you're going through this, OP.
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Ask your midwife team for support, domestic abuse during pregnancy is sadly all too common and they will have heard it before and be able to refer you to the appropriate services to get help to leave him. I understand being nervous of social services involvement but it will be worse if they find out further down the line if God forbid he takes his temper out on your child after its born. Get help to leave him now and show them that you want to be the best parent you can be and protect your child.

OP I am so sorry you are going through this tough situation.

Please consider reaching out to your midwifery team, GP, or a family member or friend for help. If you are in danger right now, please call the police. Social services are also there to help you.

Please take a look at the page MNHQ have posted - Women’s Aid, the National Domestic Abuse Charity - they have helplines you can call for support and advice.

Please seek help now to leave your partner, and to keep yourself and your baby safe. Sending lots of love x

www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk

@bpdmama hi OP, just checking in as I’ve been thinking of you and saw your other threads.

Just wanted to say again that you’re not alone. You’ve done the right thing reaching out for help. There are people who care and want to keep you safe, please consider calling one of the helplines MNHQ posted about. Take care of yourself. x

I’m so sorry your going through this please please either phone the police and seek support from your midwife xx

I think you should go to A&E or your nearest urgent care and get an xray of your foot.