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I’ve just got back from living as a medieval person, AMA

362 replies

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 05/02/2025 11:57

First time in my life I’ve ever done anything worthy of an AMA!

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Sourisblanche · 05/02/2025 12:47

Another one, did anyone find themselves doing the mediaeval two sleeps a night ‘biphasic sleep’.

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 05/02/2025 12:48

OrlandointheWilderness · 05/02/2025 12:18

Ohhh I'm so envious! I bet that was amazing. Did anything surprise you about the experience that you weren't expecting?

Thought it would involve more pain and suffering. Despite the cold weather and rain we were warm and not damp. I think it really really helped that we were a comfortably off household with loads of firewood.

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TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 05/02/2025 12:52

EmpressaurusKitty · 05/02/2025 12:20

What were your jobs?

We all helped out with general cleaning, tending the fire. I did a lot of washing up. I brewed ale, which was very exciting as I have only just learned and a lot of people I talked to before were sceptical over whether I would be able to get it to ferment (it did!) due to the cold.
I also did a lot of spinning (wool and flax) in spare moments.

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TheFatCatsWhiskers1 · 05/02/2025 12:54

I'd love to do something like this. I remember a series, it was in the 90s I think, where people had to live as a family in a particular era or decade. So there was 'the 1800s house', 'the 1900s house', the '1920s house' etc. I recall some people really struggled with it, especially when it came to things like washing their hair.

How did you feel at the end? Was there any sense of wishing to stay longer? Or were you keen to get home?

Edit: found it! https://www.channel4.com/programmes/the-1900-house and it's available to watch. not quite as I remembered but there were spin-offs, wiki says:

Instinct1 · 05/02/2025 12:55

What did you all do during the day, and the evenings? Were you given "jobs" and / or fun activities?

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 05/02/2025 12:56

WomenInConstruction · 05/02/2025 12:21

Did you sleep well?
What was your bed like?

Straw palliasse with a thin flock (wool) mattress on top, about 5 blankets.
I slept better than camping, not as well as in a Premier Inn.
Two people had proper beds, sometimes shared with other people they weren’t even in a relationship with!

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TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 05/02/2025 12:57

CaptainMyCaptain · 05/02/2025 12:25

I had a hand (literally) in the wattle and daub in one of those houses in 1973 which was not long after it started I think. I'd love to go back and see it now.

It’s such a great museum and lovely staff who are really imaginative and open to making the best of the buildings.

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TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 05/02/2025 13:02

JustWalkingTheDogs · 05/02/2025 12:21

What did you do if one of you got a headache or sick? Were you able to take modern medicine?

We would have taken modern medicine if needed, no question. If someone was properly ill they would not have compromised their health by staying in cold less than clean conditions.
That said, there are plenty of herbal remedies that can genuinely help for minor ailments. I have never found a better migraine cure than feverfew, which I was first given age 13 at a reenactment.

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jacksonlambsregulardisorder · 05/02/2025 13:03

Was any poor soul having to do the peasant life?! Did you have tableware or did you eat off trenchers? How was it being around fire all the time? I've often wondered if my eyes or lungs would give up first 😂

Strawberrypicnic · 05/02/2025 13:04

Did you have to give up your phone completely for the whole time?

EducatingArti · 05/02/2025 13:05

WomenInConstruction · 05/02/2025 12:10

Why was it done in February, instead of, say... June? 😁

I think this is because it brings more people to the museum at an otherwise very quiet time

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 05/02/2025 13:05

EBearhug · 05/02/2025 12:25

Having temporarily lived somewhere with no water or electricity - I found it does get dull, fetching and purifying water every day, just like any chore, and I doubt that would have been any different in mediaeval England.

Yep. Just because we had a brilliant time doing this for a few days, like Marie Antoinette in her little dairy, doesn’t mean medieval life wasn’t grindingly hard in reality. I would like the best bits of both please, I don’t want to live medieval life for real.

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fashionqueen0123 · 05/02/2025 13:07

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 05/02/2025 12:35

We had modern toilets available but we also had piss pots for the night.
It turns out when everyone else is doing it too you really don’t care about using the piss pot in a bedroom with other people in it!

Yes I wonder who was brave enough to go first 🤣

thepariscrimefiles · 05/02/2025 13:08

Did you have proper toilets?

Toddlerteaplease · 05/02/2025 13:08

Did you all smell?

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 05/02/2025 13:09

ThePoshUns · 05/02/2025 12:26

I thought this was going to be a thread about reincarnation!

😂

People are always interesting people in previous lives though so instead of living in obscurity in a small village in Sussex I would have to be on here claiming I was Elizabeth Woodville.

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Goldfsh · 05/02/2025 13:15

Did it teach you anything about your 'modern life' and inspire you to make changes to how you live in any way?

Woodythewonderpony · 05/02/2025 13:16

I would be very interested to know how you got into/get into re-enactments as I think one of my (adult) DS’s would be very interested.

I’m fairly close to Singleton but haven’t been since I was at school many, many years ago! Really should visit again.

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 05/02/2025 13:17

Windingdownsoon345 · 05/02/2025 12:28

Very cool!

-what happened about toothpaste?
-period protection?
-did you bathe?
-did you eat any sugar?
-what was the bread like?
-where did you sleep?

Sorry! I’m curious!

Toothpaste- good point, we cheated on that. Maybe that’s something I should work on for next time.
Periods - wasn’t an issue. This is probably something it would be wiser to experiment with outside a reenactment setting though as it could be messy, and I am perimenopausal so might have missed the boat there.
See previous answers re washing and sleep.
The bread was fairly dense, brown, tasted nice. Some of it was baked in the museum’s big Tudor bread oven but we also had a little tabletop clay oven that looks like a big pile of earth.
Sugar - very little. A little bit of marchpane on Candlemas and some sugar plums made of dried fruit rolled in sugar.

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ThatFluentTiger · 05/02/2025 13:18

Do you think there’s anything you’ll take away from it you’ll keep doing now? Has it changed you at all?

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 05/02/2025 13:23

WhitegreeNcandle · 05/02/2025 12:28

I’d LOVE to do something like this. Sounds amazing!

Hoe did you wash? Do you feel people communicated differently? Was there a point to it eg historic research?

It’s going to be written up for an experimental archaeology journal.

Communication is an interesting question. It was certainly interesting living cheek by jowl with people to that degree, but we were such a specific group that I don’t think it would be safe to draw conclusions from how we got on.

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GameOfJones · 05/02/2025 13:27

This sounds absolutely fascinating and can I just thank you for doing an AMA where you actually quote the people that have asked you a question before typing your answer! They can be hard to read because so often people don't quote before they reply. So thank you.

Misses point of the thread entirely

cheezncrackers · 05/02/2025 13:28

Wow! So envious. I'd love to do something like that.

Did you have access to books and, if so, what? I'm guessing the answer is 'No', because as a servant you would probably have been illiterate!

What about church? Back then it was a huge part of life, so did you go to church? Was it required? Did you have to sit in a different area to the 'wealthier' people?

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 05/02/2025 13:29

Mummyoflittledragon · 05/02/2025 12:34

What was the worst thing you had to do? And the best?

Boiling a load of water for brewing second time round after the wooden bucket split the first time.

I liked all the Candlemas rituals. Throwing all our candle stubs into the fire to get a massive flare up was fun.

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Greenstamp · 05/02/2025 13:29

Such a m interesting AMA. You've already answered quite a lot of my questions re sleep and cold.
What clothing did you sleep in? Did you spend much time outside in the daytime?