What a stroke of luck! I was going to make my own thread asking this but as you're here 🙃
My DDs dad was released halfway through a 7yr sentence last summer. He has bipolar but he was having supervised contact with DD and all was okish until this May, when he became very delusional & abusive.
He was arrested and subsequently sectioned, then sent to prison. Due to his allegations against me, social services had to do an assessment & the social worker was getting quite a lot of info from his probation officer, which she passed onto me. At this time, SS & the police said that recall was a virtual certainty. I was told that he'd also been missing his probation meetings and required mental health reviews.
My 8yo DD has a neurological condition & is v mentally vulnerable, so this all took its toll. She blamed herself (and me) and was suicidal due to it. School is particularly hard for her, so me & her therapist decided it was best to wait for the holidays to tell her that her dad was back in prison. I also didn't want to do this until I had concrete info re how long he will be in there, so I'm able to answer her questions.
But now, it all seems much less clear. Social services closed the case so I can't get info from them, and the police said yesterday that probation are unable to tell them when the parole hearing will be, or if there will even be one.
Not really sure what to do. Would probation talk to me? I am the victim of the latest offence (hence the police's updates) and there is certainly risk if he's let out without me knowing, but my main concern is having the information to tell my DD at a time which will cause the least distress.
Would massively appreciate any advice you can give!