I can pick which nurseries I go to. I have refused to go back to quite a few and have told the agency why.
I think from my experience, nurseries are filled with agency staff which is why there are different staff members that you see each time. Sometimes I do a later shift and when parents arrive, I don't know what their child has done in the morning which is awkward. It doesn't sound very good but definitely all too familiar. I hate to say this but nurseries I have been in are all much the same. I am sure some are good but I have yet to work in one which I would leave my own child in. I would trust your own instincts on this @purplepeg . If something feels off then your instincts are most likely right.
@JarOfTulips I have liked the nurseries which have a lot of outdoor time or those that have tables set up with activities rather than just letting children walk around aimlessly.
I don't particularly follow any blogs but Nursery world is interesting to read at times with the articles they put out.
In terms of a good nursery, it's all about personal experience. Don't go by their ofsted rating. I have been in an 'outstanding ' nursery where the kids were shouted at all day and who have a chronic long standing staffing issue.
Look for those who engage well with families and the children and nurseries which are more open door policy rather than everything hidden away. Unfortunately though you don't know what a nursery is truly like until you work in them.