How do u deal with your current partners kids mother

[Eletrunks]

I am with my new partner and his kids mum is being a pain and don't know how to go about it, she what's him to be at her beacon call all the time and he dose to help her out witch is fine with me, but me and him want to spend time together before he goes and sees his kids and she don't like that and is getting snotty with him, then I am missing out on time with him cuz he don't wanna upset her. What would u do?

I am all up for him seeing his kids whenever he wants too.

What do you mean?

It sounds as if he wants to put his children first.

Stay out of it completely . It’s none of your business.

Sorry to hear this, I posted I previous thread about expectations of step parents, as I'm the baby mum who is just as confused about the whole coparenting thing. Firstly don't take note of half the posts, as mines completely tore me to shreads, similar to your few I was told it was none of my business, and basically my son was to live two seperate lives.
I don't know why she is acting the way she is, however I would advise communication being the best thing. On my side I never know if I'm coming or going, I know my ex feels I ask too much but tbh it's not cause I care what he's doing it's because I need to arrange plans around him usually. I never know if I'm doing right or wrong, I msg him info/updates but told it's too much, however when I don't tell him something, he finds out elsewhere it's full scale argument.. in an ideal world I would love us (including new partner) to get along, civilly at least, for our sons sake, but communication is our down fall aswell.

Also do u mind me asking how long you've been with your partner? And how long has he seperated from baby mum? X