In November 2018, I rowed with my partner of 16 years, it was during a grocery shopping trip. I was sick of him shouting at me, so I turned and walked off home.He returned 2 hours later, said "It's obvious we are n ot getting on, I am having this house valued and sold." We did not speak for 4 days and avoided each other. He did have 2 seperate valuations on the house which unsettled me, he has found my achiles heel, as I have to have my security of my own home. Then he slowly started speaking again, when I tried to discuss what he'd said days earlier, he said he didn't want it mentioned again, and I had the impression I was supposed to pretend he hadn't said it. We own the house mortgage free now, but we are tenants in common, as he put down the lion's share of deposit when we bought the house, 60% to him and 40% to me. Over the years we have grown apart, although there is no violence, I am ok as long as I stay on the right side of him. If I disagree with him, he can go into mega sulk and take to his bed for days, refusing to speak to me, this has happened every 2-3 years we have lived together. He has rowed with almost all our neighbours over parking, and some of them now do not speak to me either, and I have noticed during lockdown, that I can not even listen to the radio without him moaning that he doesn't want to listen to the news or phone ins, due to broadcasting bias, often switching over to a different station or switching off completely, which is downright rude. A few years ago I had to drop a friend as he didn't like her, he complained so much during her phone calls that I had to sever all contact, just to keep the peace at home. I am considering making a 2 year plan to leave, all steming from the day he got the house valuers in . . .on my birthday !! Advice please !