How did you learn to trust and like men again afterwards?
It honestly hasn't changed the way I feel about men, I've never trusted them and still don't including my husband. I trust him 99percent and as much as I could trust a man; however I'd never trust a man 100 percent. I think I'd be naive to after everything I've seen not just in strip clubs, but life in general
Has your marriage been hard because of your old job?
I don't think my marriage has been any harder due to my job. If anything easier as I learnt some really useful skills being a stripper believe it or not!! Resilience, and thick skinned are things being a stripper really helped me with and I think help me with my marriage rather than hinder. My husband also doesn't judge me at all for my past so all good in that respect.
Looking back, do you still think you were empowered by it?
I do think it empowered me at the time yes, it gave me a lot of confidence that I still feel I owe to the job today. I'd have never had my career now (post stripper that has nothing to do with it lol) if it weren't for the skills learned back then weirdly enough. If I could turn back time, I'd do it again. It made me who I am and I don't think I'd have the sales skills and confidence to have the career now without that as a grounding. It really made me thick skinned as hell. Walking up to a group of guys on a stag do in bra and panties really makes you not give a shit. Perhaps I could have learned those skills some other way but for me, it worked at the time.