The AMA was because I know kik is often cited as a means to an affair by wives on here, and I'm on the other side of that.
It sounds a lot more sordid than it actually is. The majority of men on kik seeking a hookup will never find one. The odds are simply not in their favour, there's 95 men to 5 women.
If you find out your man has been on kik or other sites like illicit encounters, chances are he's unlikely to have been physically unfaithful unless he's very handsome.
Its safe sex. I cheat, I'm not stupid.
And actually I've stopped doing it, my kik days are over.