Hi, I have recently split up with my partner, we have a 4 year old son. He never bothered with him before we split up but in the short time we have been separated and with an initial bashing from me he has stepped up and is having ds 2-3 nights a week. I am not origio ally from here and only moved to Cumbria when ds was 6 months old to be with dad. It has been a real uphil struggle ever since with one thing and another and I held on trying to make it work much longer than I would have if ds wasn’t a part of it. Maybe stupid I know but you do want to make things work more when children are involved. I really want to move back to where my family are in Cheshire. I don’t have a huge family but mum, dad and stepmum who also have two young children same sort of age as ds are there. Also all my friends I have kept in good contact with and many with children similar age. I feel I would have more opportunity work wise there as I am a hairdresser worked there for years successfully previously. Ds does have a good relationship with dad now and I wouldn’t want to stop contact but it would obviously have to change. How likely am I to be able to go if he doesn’t agree to the move which I really don’t think he will. I’m worried if I don’t do it while ds is still young it will only get harder when he settles into school etc. Please help