I have what I think is a very bad prolapse after the birth of my son almost 4 years ago. My GP keeps fobbing me off. She checked me and said I had a slight prolapse and just to do pelvic floor excercises, which I have been doing anyway but nothing seems to help. Eventually, after arguing for over a year I got her to refer me to a gynecologist, however nothing has ever came of this referral and everytime I ask I am told the waiting list is just really long, I do not believe its 3 years long, I think shes just again fobbing me off.
Meanwhile, I have to push on the bit between my butt and vagina everytime I need a shit. Sorry for begin graphic, but I can;t really think of any other way to describe it. I have a huge bulge sticking out all of the time, which I can feel most of the time which is seriously uncomfortable, I also feel quite gross which has affected my sex life a lot.
I am worried that the longer this goes on, the less likely it is to be able to be fixed. However I cannot afford to go private as I have a host of other issues after the birth which have left me physically disabled so I am not currently working.
My mother says this can be fixed with a simple operation. My question is basically, is this true, and does it sound to you like my GP is just bullshitting me about the referral, and is there any way to actually get a referral without going via my very unhelpful GP!?
I don't imagine hormones are something you specialize in, but this is something else I keep asking medical professionals and not getting a satisfactory answer. Basically, I used to get this horrendous pain in my right side, but it was only once a month of so and for a few hours at a time. This went away totally when I was pregnant. I did not get it at all. For a few weeks after the birth, I didn't get it either. Then all of a sudden it was back with a vengeance. Now it doesn't let up much at all, the pain is there, worse, average 20 hours a day and its totally disabling. I get a few hours each day (usually, sometimes the break does not come) where I am totally normal..but then it comes back. Now, I think this is clearly some issue with hormones, given the fact that it went away totally in pregnancy, however the pregnancy seems to have made it much worse also. But my GP, pain clinic, consultant, everybody say this is not possible. They also took out my gallbladder thinking it may be that, but fucked up the operation leaving me almost dead and in hospital for 2 weeks with huge drains sticking out of my side...and longterm nerve damage to add to the normal pain. So have been very unlucky medical wise.
If this is possible to answer, do you think this could possibly be a hormonal problem?! Noone else seems to be investigating anymore and they have just written me off on morphine. However the morphine they did have me on (80mg per day) worked OK, but was not enough to actually allow me to have a resemblance of a normal life. But now, they reckon thats too high a dose to be on so cut me down to 40mg per day, which is unbearable, whilst refusing to add in anything else to substitute the loss of pain relief. Ugh. Sory for the bit of a rant, but I am so annoyed by the whole situation and am actually reduced to doing cold water extractions on cocodamol tablets to get the pure codeine, and self medicating with alcohol and weed. Due to everyone refusing to help me, and taking away the little bit of help they did at one stage give.