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I’m an Ex High Class Escort - ask me anything!

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ExHighClass · 30/06/2018 22:00

I’ve been ‘retired’ for a few years now but worked for 5+ in London. Most of my regular clients were happily married men with completely unsuspecting wives. Please ask me anything and I’ll happily answer with my experience, perspective and opinions.

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Racecardriver · 30/06/2018 22:40

High class doesn't actually mean what you think it means even in ordinary language. It is actually a bit of an oxymoron just like 'posh'. Most people say high class on a slightly deridong manner so actually quite fit when describing a class of sex workers @middlemoffat

I assume OP is using it as 'industry' specific.

Racecardriver · 30/06/2018 22:41

@OP what are you doing now? Weren't you worried that escorting would prevent you from finding a different job, getting married, etc?

screepy · 30/06/2018 22:43

Were you ever threatened by pimps? Or did any try to recruit you?

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ExHighClass · 30/06/2018 22:47

Racecardriver - I wasn’t worried to be honest. I can’t say what I do now but it’s a career I retrained for and I work in an office. I met my partner (the main reason I’m now retired) about 2yrs into my escorting and while he wasn’t thrilled about my career choice he accepted it. We didn’t live together until after I retired and as he is a bit older than me (he is NOT an ex-client; I knew him many years before we got together) his children are grown up with their own families.

I’ve never regretted my escorting - ever - it felt like a calling (that sounds so naff, and I don’t mean it to) but it felt like something I needed to do. I’m quite spiritual and believe there is a bigger reason for why I did it. I don’t know what that is (yet...!).

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ExHighClass · 30/06/2018 22:49

Racacardriver - exactly; what you said.

Screepy - thankfully no pimps as I was with an agency that protected me very well (for 25% of my takings)

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screepy · 30/06/2018 22:50

Did you always use condoms?

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ExHighClass · 30/06/2018 22:52

Awlookatmybaberspider - sorry I missed your question. My first client session was quite nerve racking, particularly as it was the (female) agency boss’ partner! He was nice though and he obv gave me a glowing report as I was very busy that first night

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Brazenhussy0 · 30/06/2018 22:53

I'm a current prostitute. Not 'high class' mind, just a standard hooker Grin

Why do/did you describe yourself as high class? Was it based on your rate? Marketing? Location?

MiddleMoffat · 30/06/2018 22:53

So high class is more not on the streets?

I wonder if my DP visits prostitutes. We are not intimate as he became a child to me, needing more looking after than my children. I wouldn't care if he did. He has a definite madonna/whore complex - I can't want amazing mind blowing sex as now I'm a mother.Confused Other types of women like that kind of sex, but not his partner. Its a bit fucked up.

Do you meet men like that OP?

HollowTalk · 30/06/2018 22:54

Are you happy doing that, @Brazenhussy0?

Brazenhussy0 · 30/06/2018 22:54

And why did you choose to work for pimps instead of independently?

(Agencies are a scourge on the industry imo.)

theredjellybean · 30/06/2018 22:54

How did you find an agency?
And what age are escorts?

SoleBizzz · 30/06/2018 22:57

Pimps own the agencies.

Brazenhussy0 · 30/06/2018 22:59

@HollowTalk
Yes I am happy with what I do.
I work indoors, independently, screen my clients well and keep myself safe (and very well paid.)

Many of my clients have been seeing me for years so I'm in the fortunate position of not having to take risks with too many newcomers.

HollowTalk · 30/06/2018 23:01

Stay safe.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 30/06/2018 23:02

So , if you have a client who wants "The Girlfriend Experience" and you meet them socially while out with another client , is it awkward?

And do they tell you in advance what they want or do you have to try and decipher them?

LoveProsecco · 30/06/2018 23:05

Do your social circle know?

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ExHighClass · 30/06/2018 23:05

I try to answer the many recent questions in one post if I can.

I knew that I would do the job for a finite time and so choosing to be with an agency (pimp...whatever you want to call it) was best for me. I was happy to pay the 25% fees as they vetted clients and provided my client base so all I had to do was rock up and look pretty. I described myself as high class as this is what the agency referred to me (and the other ladies) as. I think being (highly) educated is part of that (as I am).

MiddleMoffat - I met many types of men, but most only for 1hr, so what I would learn about them in that time was limited. Obviously if they became regulars I’d learn more about them but they were likely to be quite different in my company than that of others.

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ExHighClass · 30/06/2018 23:08

Theredjellybean - I didn’t start this thread to assist anyone getting into the business. There are sites dedicated to that if you want to read them instead.

70isalimit - it would vary greatly. Some would be very explicit verbally about what they wanted/expected and others (I had a number of virgins visit me) would need guiding.

LoveProsecco - yes, anyone who was important in my life knew what I was doing. I think the only person who didn’t know (but suspected) was my dear Dad.

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ExHighClass · 30/06/2018 23:10

70isalimit - thankfully I lived many miles away from London (then!) so never met a client IRL when I was with another client or a friend.

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ExHighClass · 30/06/2018 23:13

Screepy - absolutely always condoms for all PIV (I didn’t do anal!!) but not for BJs. This was a calculated risk I chose to take (NOT forced by agency/pimp owner I hasten to add!). I had tests every 4 weeks though and didn’t work again until I had results.

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Brazenhussy0 · 30/06/2018 23:13

1 hour back to back bookings and you called youself high class for having an education?

In my experience of the industry, we call that a 'conveyor belt' with typical agency bollocks marketing Wink

If your agency really did screen your clients thoroughly, then you were very lucky.

Crunchymum · 30/06/2018 23:18

Surely high class prostitutes don't have 6-8 clients "back to back" ?

leghairdontcare · 30/06/2018 23:19

So you were working in a brothel?

Brazenhussy0 · 30/06/2018 23:24

@Crunchymum
No, they don't - mostly because 'high class' is just a marketing ploy agencies use to justify the inflated rates they charge to allow them to take a very large cut.

I'm not high class, and I only see 2 - 4 clients per day. Booking lengths are usually 1, 2 or 3 hours.
Never back to back.