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Women's rights general conversations - Thread 4

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Kucinghitam · 09/03/2023 09:19

Continuation of Thread 3.

There is so much excellent information and so many active discussions on FWR that I wondered if it would be useful to have a thread to sort of "cross-fertilise" between them - airing little thoughts or vignettes that wouldn't themselves merit their own thread, to highlight other posts/threads of particular interest or to point to notable developments on fast-moving threads so that casual observers know where to look.

(For example, "the X thread has meandered onto a fascinating discussion of Y" or "Poster P's amazing analysis on thread Z might have relevance to the scenario in thread W" or "Has anybody noticed this recurring theme that keeps coming up??" or even "Random bloke asked me to smile while I was choosing onions, grr"- that sort of thing).

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beastlyslumber · 24/03/2023 09:41

Thanks @Boiledbeetle Love when we can see a vote on these things. 99% think it's bollocks.

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NotDrowningJustCrowing · 23/03/2023 22:06

I'm glad that Starmer has looked at the optics and realised that he can't go there but he's still a snake. He will go with the prevailing wind come what may which means that at any point he will turn again. And again. And again. He has no real convictions other than getting into power. His latest "We're going to cut crimes against women and children in half when we get into power." is ludicrous. How is he going to do that? It's another soundbite. Everything is a soundbite. So, yay, the current soundbite is a good one that will slow down the insanity but you can never trust a person who lacks all conviction.

nepeta · 23/03/2023 16:53

CryptoFascistMadameCholet · 23/03/2023 14:40

Anna Kasparian of the Young Turks put her head over the parapet!

I knew she’d been having secret terf-adjacent thoughts for ages as she said something similar on a live TYT broadcast YEARS ago (commenting on that bizarre DSA event with the dude begging the conference to use non-gendered language for everyone) but they must have got some immediate pushback from their audience because when I went to find the clip to share it over here, it was gone.

3 and a half years later, she’s tweeted and doesn’t seem to be backing down.

Over 90 000 likes on her tweet. The silent majority is waking up.

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beastlyslumber · 23/03/2023 15:57

SinnerBoy · 23/03/2023 14:44

xxyzz · Today 01:43

Links to these racists, pretending to support women would be good. Or else, you'll prove that you're lying.

Yep, I think we know how that's going to go.

CryptoFascistMadameCholet · 23/03/2023 14:49

CryptoFascistMadameCholet · 23/03/2023 14:40

Anna Kasparian of the Young Turks put her head over the parapet!

I knew she’d been having secret terf-adjacent thoughts for ages as she said something similar on a live TYT broadcast YEARS ago (commenting on that bizarre DSA event with the dude begging the conference to use non-gendered language for everyone) but they must have got some immediate pushback from their audience because when I went to find the clip to share it over here, it was gone.

3 and a half years later, she’s tweeted and doesn’t seem to be backing down.

https://twitter.com/AnaKasparian/status/1638608868485005314

forgot the link 🤦‍♀️

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Women's rights general conversations - Thread 4
SinnerBoy · 23/03/2023 14:44

xxyzz · Today 01:43

Links to these racists, pretending to support women would be good. Or else, you'll prove that you're lying.

CryptoFascistMadameCholet · 23/03/2023 14:40

Anna Kasparian of the Young Turks put her head over the parapet!

I knew she’d been having secret terf-adjacent thoughts for ages as she said something similar on a live TYT broadcast YEARS ago (commenting on that bizarre DSA event with the dude begging the conference to use non-gendered language for everyone) but they must have got some immediate pushback from their audience because when I went to find the clip to share it over here, it was gone.

3 and a half years later, she’s tweeted and doesn’t seem to be backing down.

Women's rights general conversations - Thread 4
beastlyslumber · 23/03/2023 07:25

xxyzz · 23/03/2023 01:43

Same reason FWR is currently overrun with racists pretending to care about women’s rights currently?

Where? Point me to a thread? And please report any racist posts you see. I will do the same.

xxyzz · 23/03/2023 01:43

beastlyslumber · 22/03/2023 07:59

There's a punter on the 'religious sex workers' thread.

Why the hell are there punters in FWR?

Same reason FWR is currently overrun with racists pretending to care about women’s rights currently?

duc748 · 22/03/2023 22:31

Not for the first time, I fully agree with all of that, Crows.

NotDrowningJustCrowing · 22/03/2023 22:10

I was reading about the lib dem conference in a daily email from the Glinner. Apparently and oh so delightfully, Ed Davey made his way into the conference just to ensure that the vote didn't happen and then fucked off again.

Re voting. I agree, each and every person has to do what is right for them when it comes to voting - well unless they're voting Tory, then they need to stay at home and do nothing at all - but spoiling your vote is a legitimate response to the current political culture with or without gender woo. There is no party that gives a flying fuck about ordinary people, that is working to make life better for ordinary people, that is truly bothered by migrants being treated like animals, that has ever given a shit about women as people in our own rights. I would not judge anyone for voting Labour or LibDem or Green for being a bit better than the current incumbents but I can't and won't vote for any of them.

beastlyslumber · 22/03/2023 07:59

There's a punter on the 'religious sex workers' thread.

Why the hell are there punters in FWR?

SinnerBoy · 22/03/2023 04:11

I'll just leave this here. Minnesota has awarded them Woman of the Year, in another case of pissing up women's legs.

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11888153/Transgender-lawmaker-Minnesota-wins-USA-Today-Women-Year-alongside-Michelle-Obama.html#comments

Gonners · 21/03/2023 14:51

@Kucinghitam

... "Brexit: Sunlit Uplands!"/ "Stop the small boats and send 'em to Rwanda"/ "Earth is Flat!"/ "Anthropogenic climate change is made-up"/ "Sex is a Spectrum and It is Impossible to Detect the Sex of members of our own species and Humans Can Be Born in the Wrong Body and Can Change Sex and Anyway the Best Ladies have Penises!"

I may adopt this as my manifesto for the BSSCRDF (bollock-spouting slogan-chanting reality-denying fantasist) party I am idly planning to found. I think we should do well.

duc748 · 21/03/2023 14:11

Yeah, all of that. They say these things, they probably don't believe them themselves, but they say them anyway. Just seems to me that they will say any old shit, if their focus groups tell them that's what people want to hear (Brexit, Channel boats, etc). Except that, when it comes to GC, they are starting to find out that women won't wear it.

Kucinghitam · 21/03/2023 14:03

I don't really want to pile into that Labour Party thread, but does anyone else, as I am increasingly doing, kinda resent the idea/description that I am "socially conservative" in supporting women's rights?

I can recall one of the TRSOH intellectual giants from the old place explaining that all we Bad People, despite having been part of the "progressive" side all our lives, had in fact always been Bad Inside all along and the Badness had finally been revealed to the universe thanks to the One Special Issue.

On the specific issue of voting to get the Tories out, everybody has to make their own judgement and draw their own red lines. One of my red lines is that I'd find it very hard to give my vote to anybody who is a bollock-spouting slogan-chanting reality-denying fantasist, and I am equal-opportunity repulsed by "Brexit: Sunlit Uplands!"/ "Stop the small boats and send 'em to Rwanda"/ "Earth is Flat!"/ "Anthropogenic climate change is made-up"/ "Sex is a Spectrum and It is Impossible to Detect the Sex of members of our own species and Humans Can Be Born in the Wrong Body and Can Change Sex and Anyway the Best Ladies have Penises!"

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IcakethereforeIam · 21/03/2023 13:58

I was noodling around on twitter, noticed this tweet and read a bit of the thread to amuse myself. I then went back and noticed who had sent the original tweet. I'm heartbroken, it was the Friendly Atheist! I used to watch his YouTube videos (until, frankly, they got a bit repetitive). I'd heard the atheist youtubers had fallen hard for genderwoo, but this was the first time I'd run smack into it. Also the guy in the first comment, but I'd never much cared for him. Are there any atheist youtubers not keeping the new faith?

https://twitter.com/hemantmehta/status/1637971772099133441?s=20

https://twitter.com/hemantmehta/status/1637971772099133441?s=20

duc748 · 21/03/2023 12:44

I'm sure that's a common position too, @Britinme . I'd have probably said similar myself 18 months ago. Although I've been massively underwhelmed by Starmer from the start. GC is just another issue where his insincerity shines through like a beacon.

MavisMcMinty · 21/03/2023 12:43

I’m with your daughter, Brit, although down here it’ll probably be the Lib Dems with the best chance of unseating all the 20+K Tory majorities in the south-west. We cannot survive another Tory government, they have destroyed the UK. Everything else is secondary, to me.

Britinme · 21/03/2023 12:37

My daughter in her 40s doesn't agree with us. She thinks getting the Tories out is more important than anything else and somewhat pooh poohs my GC concerns.

duc748 · 21/03/2023 12:35

I don't really want to pile into that Labour Party thread, but does anyone else, as I am increasingly doing, kinda resent the idea/description that I am "socially conservative" in supporting women's rights? I don't consider that I've ever been "conservative", in a political or social sense, but is now, if Labour sheep and goats are being divided into "progressives" and "conservatives", us old (relatively) people are in the conservative group and the progressiveness is left to blue-haired youngsters?

If people in their twenties and thirties don't agree with us, we gotta big problem, surely?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 21/03/2023 12:31

It strikes me that, although I'd say the generally acceptable position on this has had to shift in our favour recently, largely due to the spotlight on the Isla Bryson case, there's a danger of that becoming the new border.

That is, an acceptance that there are bad actors and piss-takers, and that women have the right to say no to them in female spaces, but that it's still somehow unacceptable for women to say no male bodies in our space, regardless of GRC status, surgery, etc. That a man who's undergone SRS is not a specific serial threat and so what reason could we possibly have to object?

Yes I agree. We need not only to complain about threat, but also the attack on our privacy and dignity, which cannot be reconciled, and our perfect right to disbelieve in an unconvincing, flimsy, ideology.

A problem is that the "reasonable" sorts think all problems are minimal with some very limited safeguarding, and in this sexist society male feelings about being "othered" trump women's feelings.

Kucinghitam · 21/03/2023 12:03

The Met report was mentioned on the radio headlines last night, and just the brief summary was enough to get my blood pressure up (plus a huge dose of "No shit, Sherlock!"). I'm girding my loins to read up more.

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