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The Guardian on Mermaids

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zanahoria · 17/11/2022 17:12

It took them a while but here we go

www.theguardian.com/society/2022/nov/17/mermaids-why-has-the-trans-charity-been-in-the-news

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Boiledbeetle · 18/11/2022 20:12

're Darren Mews, when they are asked by the press about Mews Mermaids responded with

""Secondly, The Times newspaper published an article today about a former member of staff. While we can confirm that the person referred to no longer works for the charity, we are unable to comment further due to the need to maintain confidentiality."

So....have they rehired him? or is It that the BBC article is old and had been held back from an earlier publication date maybe?

RedToothBrush · 18/11/2022 19:49

RoyalCorgi · 18/11/2022 17:58

How stupid and naive (let's be charitable here) do you have to be not to look at this man's stated interests to check he's suitable to be a Trustee of a children's charity working with particularly vulnerable children?

The other explanation: Mermaids looked at his interest in children's sexuality and thought: "This is exactly the kind of person we want as a trustee."

They decided the words children's sexuality and transgender were the only words they were concerned about, yes.

ArabellaScott · 18/11/2022 19:31

That's just a bloody advert for that person's product. Blatant.

BoreOfWhabylon · 18/11/2022 19:27

Draigosaurus · 18/11/2022 18:04

If he is no longer employed by them, why was he quoted in an article, by Miriam Barker, about tucking underwear which was posted under the BBC News Wales page two days ago?

Shock Trans woman hopes underwear line will aid safety www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-wales-62430647 Mermaids engagement officer Darren Mew said: "Many trans people have different requirements from swimwear and underwear than their cis-gendered counterparts, and having a line that understands this whilst promoting body confidence is a huge step forward for the trans community.
TheBiologyStupid · 18/11/2022 19:26

Draigosaurus · 18/11/2022 18:04

If he is no longer employed by them, why was he quoted in an article, by Miriam Barker, about tucking underwear which was posted under the BBC News Wales page two days ago?

Indeed - he's even cited as MM's engagement officer: www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-wales-62430647

ArabellaScott · 18/11/2022 19:15

RoyalCorgi · 18/11/2022 17:58

How stupid and naive (let's be charitable here) do you have to be not to look at this man's stated interests to check he's suitable to be a Trustee of a children's charity working with particularly vulnerable children?

The other explanation: Mermaids looked at his interest in children's sexuality and thought: "This is exactly the kind of person we want as a trustee."

It is plausible. His work involves looking at 'queering' of children and childhood, as I understand it.

Which meshes with Mermaid's aims.

ArabellaScott · 18/11/2022 19:13

FrancescaContini · 18/11/2022 19:03

@RedToothBrush goodness, doesn’t this individual pack a lot of buzz words into his work? I am wondering what the “steadfastness of the gender binary” is.

I'm guessing it's like the 'steadfastness of gravity'.

FrancescaContini · 18/11/2022 19:03

@RedToothBrush goodness, doesn’t this individual pack a lot of buzz words into his work? I am wondering what the “steadfastness of the gender binary” is.

Whatwouldscullydo · 18/11/2022 19:00

The other explanation: Mermaids looked at his interest in children's sexuality and thought: "This is exactly the kind of person we want as a trustee."

Yes perhaps less time focusing on trying to work out how women can be linked to right wing extremists and more time figuring out that anyone who advocates for lack of safeguarding, boundaries and age cut offs will subsequently attract extremists on their side too!

Draigosaurus · 18/11/2022 18:04

BoreOfWhabylon · 18/11/2022 12:57

The farticle also fails to mention the inexplicable sudden departure of Darren Mew, formerly MM's Digital Engagement Manager.
www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4652666-mermaids-charity-paedophile-porn-photos-scandal-in-the-press?reply=120685158
www.spiked-online.com/2022/10/13/why-the-trans-lobby-loves-censorship/

If he is no longer employed by them, why was he quoted in an article, by Miriam Barker, about tucking underwear which was posted under the BBC News Wales page two days ago?

RoyalCorgi · 18/11/2022 17:58

How stupid and naive (let's be charitable here) do you have to be not to look at this man's stated interests to check he's suitable to be a Trustee of a children's charity working with particularly vulnerable children?

The other explanation: Mermaids looked at his interest in children's sexuality and thought: "This is exactly the kind of person we want as a trustee."

ResisterRex · 18/11/2022 17:52

And there's still the mystery of why his name was hidden from the public until the LGBA case, which changed things.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 18/11/2022 17:51

I just can't get my head round this at all. I don't know whether it was established that they contacted him or he applied. Either way, did they just think 'We want an academic, this man says he's an academic, oh look he's listed on the website of the LSE, I've heard of that, it's world famous, and he's in the Gender Studies department, we're all about gender - he'd be a catch!' with no grasp that they should look at what his research interests and publications were actually about? SG isn't a graduate as far as I can see, but she's been mixing with a lot of people who are, who could surely explain this to her, if they wanted to. How could this happen? How stupid and naive (let's be charitable here) do you have to be not to look at this man's stated interests to check he's suitable to be a Trustee of a children's charity working with particularly vulnerable children?

Boiledbeetle · 18/11/2022 17:26

@ResisterRex If they even did the most basic of Google searches they wouldn't/shouldn't have taken him on as a trustee. That they say they did and then took him on is unforgivable. It's literally handing over children that aren't theirs to stranger's who like children, and not in a wholesome healthy way.

ResisterRex · 18/11/2022 17:24

If they're going for plausible deniability then it's not landing, shall we say.

Boiledbeetle · 18/11/2022 17:23

@RedToothBrush doesn't he use a lot of big words to hide the fact that basically he's interested in porn and the sexuality of CHILDREN!

Mermaids either didn't carry out any checks OR they did and found the above perfectly fine with their children focused charity.

I'm not sure I want to know which is the truth. Because one is stupidity and the other.... Well let's not go there!

NellyCat · 18/11/2022 17:17

we did some general top-level Google and internet searches. We did a social media search [and it] didn’t come up.

How can she claim that with a striagh face. Until this blew up it was on his LSE lecturer profile!

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 18/11/2022 17:17

RedToothBrush · 18/11/2022 16:49

You mean if SG paid attention to public concerns and addressed issues about accountability properly, she'd actually not be the subject of multiple threads on MN...

Well, of course, but pigs will fly before that happens.

RedToothBrush · 18/11/2022 16:49

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 18/11/2022 16:14

Aha. So if SG would only hold her nose and look at MN from time to time, she could have saved herself a lot of grief. 🙄

You mean if SG paid attention to public concerns and addressed issues about accountability properly, she'd actually not be the subject of multiple threads on MN...

RedToothBrush · 18/11/2022 16:48

RoyalCorgi · 18/11/2022 16:02

I've been trying to find it, with no joy, but I swear there was a thread on MN about Breslow's paper BEFORE his appointment to Mermaids. It was short with only a couple of posts, and it largely went unnoticed at the time, but it got pointed out after the fact. It was quite startling which is why I remember it. May have been Jan or Feb.

Here you go:

www.mumsnet.com/talk/feminism/4397999-LSE-Gender-Studies-department-comes-unstuck-again

Thanks. I think that was it. I was beginning to think I was going nutty.

The LSE blog mentioned on that thread (which is dated) mentions his academic work in detail in his LSE professional bio at the end:
Dr Jacob Breslow is Assistant Professor of Sexuality and Gender at the LSE Department of Gender Studies. He is author of Ambivalent Childhoods: Speculative Futures and the Psychic Life of the Child (University of Minnesota Press, 2021), which brings together critical race, trans, feminist, queer, critical migration, and psychoanalytic theories to explore the role of childhood in shaping and challenging the disposability of young black life, the steadfastness of the gender binary, the queer life of children’s desires, and the precarious status of migrants. His wider research is published in Feminist Theory (forthcoming), Comparative American Studies (2020), American Quarterly (2019), Porn Studies (2018), and Transgender Studies Quarterly (2017).

Now lets look at his actual profile on LSE's website as of today. Its still similar.

www.lse.ac.uk/gender/people-profiles/faculty/jacob-breslow

My primary area of research is on contemporary U.S. social justice movements, and the ways in which the idea of childhood operates within and against them. Specifically, this work interrogates and thinks with Black Lives Matter, transfeminism, queer youth activism, and anti-deportation movements. My monograph on this research, titled Ambivalent Childhoods: Speculative Futures and the Psychic Life of the Child was published in 2021 by the University of Minnesota Press. It brings together critical race, trans, feminist, queer, critical migration, and psychoanalytic theories to explore the role of childhood in shaping and challenging the disposability of young black life, the steadfastness of the gender binary, the queer life of children’s desires, and the precarious status of migrants. Through an engagement with “the psychic life of the child” it combines theoretical discussions of childhood, blackness, transfeminism, and deportability with critical readings of films, narrative, images, and social justice movements. Beyond Ambivalent Childhoods, my research in this area is published with Feminist Theory (forthcoming), American Quarterly (2019), and Transgender Studies Quarterly (2017).

My second line of research is on transnational and local sexual politics, and the conceptual and lived effects of ameliorating sexual harms. This is a prison abolitionist project that seeks to disrupt the tendency to simply displace ‘unwanted’ sexual content, or sexual subjects, to an unseen ‘elsewhere,’ as if that displacement might render the difficulties of troubling sexualities resolved. In this body of work, I have written on social media’s outsourcing of content moderation and the production of the digital life of coloniality for Porn Studies (2018); and on the relationship between #MeToo and homonationalism for Comparative American Studies (2020). I am currently working with Emma Spruce (University of Liverpool) on a themed issue for Gender, Place & Culture titled Queer and Trans Geographies of Accommodation and Displacement, which combines analyses of local and everyday acts of making or denying spaces for queer subjects, with examinations of the political and psychic landscapes of these spatial politics. My contribution to this issue is a piece of research that brings together queer geographies with carceral geographies.

Now imagine you are a children's charity. The words 'queer life of children's desires' and 'Porn Studies', should encourage you to perhaps look a bit closer rather than just accepting that 'we relied on the fact that he must be ok cos he worked for a university with a good reputation' as a defence. The subject matter might be an area of contention if you are looking at this person as an appropriate person for a children's charity.

Porn Studies? Yes lets get a trustee on board who writes about porn when we know there's a shed load of contentious stuff around your charity and already suggestions of multiple safegarding failures before June 2022. And you know people are continually scrutinising your charity. To not ask enough questions and to think it was a good idea is a failure of duty of care. Of course some fucker is going to pick up on that eventually, (especially considering Mermaids already had the attitude that everyone was out to get them). Your response should be to make sure they are squeaky clean otherwise you are going to have a pile more questions to answer.

So why didn't Susie?

This.Is.Not.Hard.To.Google.And.Find.

TheBiologyStupid · 18/11/2022 16:35

RoyalCorgi · 18/11/2022 16:02

I've been trying to find it, with no joy, but I swear there was a thread on MN about Breslow's paper BEFORE his appointment to Mermaids. It was short with only a couple of posts, and it largely went unnoticed at the time, but it got pointed out after the fact. It was quite startling which is why I remember it. May have been Jan or Feb.

Here you go:

www.mumsnet.com/talk/feminism/4397999-LSE-Gender-Studies-department-comes-unstuck-again

Thanks, Corgi. I see that Breslow didn't have the decency to reply to Maya's second comment below his rather shoddy piece about her EAT judgement that is linked to by the OP.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 18/11/2022 16:14

Aha. So if SG would only hold her nose and look at MN from time to time, she could have saved herself a lot of grief. 🙄

RoyalCorgi · 18/11/2022 16:02

I've been trying to find it, with no joy, but I swear there was a thread on MN about Breslow's paper BEFORE his appointment to Mermaids. It was short with only a couple of posts, and it largely went unnoticed at the time, but it got pointed out after the fact. It was quite startling which is why I remember it. May have been Jan or Feb.

Here you go:

www.mumsnet.com/talk/feminism/4397999-LSE-Gender-Studies-department-comes-unstuck-again

Boiledbeetle · 18/11/2022 15:24

I would really hate to reside in SGs head, it must be torture the way she has to deny the reality of things all the time so as to minimise the damage she did to her child.

When it does finally come crashing down on her what she actually did I don't think she's going to cope with it well.

But all that pales in comparison to what her child will have to go through forever because of their parents decisions. I hope for their sake everything has turned out well, but I suspect the long term effects will kick in at some point.

Boiledbeetle · 18/11/2022 15:19

ArabellaScott · 18/11/2022 15:13

Ah, wee Darren and his plethora of penises. And breasts, iirc. A veritable buffet of bits. A kaleidoscope of cocks. A gallimaufry of goolies. A smorgasboard of sausages.

I've got it stored in my photos on my tablet. I show it to everyone who crosses my threshold whilst explaining he worked for a children's charity. It's the gift that just keeps on giving.

If I'm ever arrested and my electronics seized that will be a fun conversation!

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